Am I being a prude?
I’ve been married five years and my husband is the only man I’ve ever been with. We have lots of good sex and it’s very satisfying for both of us. But lately he’s been trying to convince me to have a threesome with another woman. First of all I have no interest in being with a woman so this would just be about him having another woman, which hurts my feelings. But more important I thought our marriage meant it’s just the two of us in bed. I love my husband and want to make him happy and do any sexual thing he desires. I have not set any limits and he knows I will and do perform any sexual act he desires. But doing something myself and allowing another woman into our bed to do things with him are two very different things. He’s really pressing about this and I worry he will cheat behind my back if I don’t give in. What should I do? The only person I’ve told is my sister and she says leave him but I don’t want that. And by the way, I asked him what if I wanted a threesome with a man and he said no way ever. I didn’t want that but was making a point. I need some guidance.Jul 12