Lost my libido

I’m a 45 year old single mom, I’ve not had sex in 2 years, since breaking up with my boyfriend I’ve lost my libido it’s like it’s switched off, I have absolutely no interest in wanting anything sexual.
I’ve met a few friends of friends but immediately panic thinking sex might be wanted.
I used to be someone that loved having sex and I want to enjoy it again but don’t know how.
I know the details are not much to go on but anyone who has been through something similar I would love to hear from you.

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  • Porn won’t help long term. Bio-identical hormone treatments will. They’re not cheap but they’re worth it. Hormone pellet therapy is also what it’s called. Your testosterone is low. The therapy gives you an optimal amount of hormones based on what you lack. My sex drive exploded with them. I would fuck everything I could if my husband didn’t satisfy me. Seriously, google it. Best money I spend all year. (Its 350 every three-four months). Hope that helps.

  • It will come back. And you will love it!

  • It’s called menopause, Your hooch is drying up.

  • You’re answer has upset me, I know it’s the menopause, just wishing I was gonna read something different.
    For a stranger to pick up on this confirms it, I just don’t understand how it seemed to happen overnight.

  • Go to the doctor to get some hormone pills to get it revving again.

  • Doesn't have to be. Start watching porn in very heavy doses, different categories.

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