I’ve made a few comments on different topics, hinting at my situation. But I’ve got to admit what’s going on. My husband is a baptist minister. We’ve been married 21 years, it’s pretty good overall. But there’s this woman, she’s recently divorced, 33 years old, she’s struggling with same sex attraction. She’s had a “lesbian past” as she calls it. And now that she’s single again, she’s fearful of slipping all the way into that lifestyle. I’ve been counseling her for some time. The problem is, I think she’s bringing me more to her desires than I am bringing her out. I think of her, in a sexual way all the time. It consumes my every thought. I don’t know if I’m a lesbian, just curious, or what. I’ve never cheated, or seriously considered it before. Nor am I sure how I’d breach the topic. I don’t know what to do.