Wanting to help my husband

Sure wish my wife would let me enjoy sex with other women. She is not interested and just thinks I should be happy with a hand job. So I have to be discrete about it and find it when I can. I travel a bit without my wife and when I do, I find as much pussy as I can. There are times when I'm gone for 5 or 6 days, I'll have sex with 5 or 6 different girls. It would be so much easier if she just said go get it. This way I have to find a reason to travel without her.

Wow can I ever relate to this. Married my wife right out of HS. Lucked into a great job, traveled the world, had 5 children and had everything planned for a great retirement. Should have seen the signs, after the last child, the wife had less and less interest in sex. Silly I always thought that sex was the expression of love and bonding between couples, evidently I was wrong as the wife thought of it as nasty and a chore. As she began menopause, the little libido that she had become non-existent and the idea of even having sex was repugnant to her.
She didn’t offer me the option you suggested to your spouse, in fact she thought that I should think like she does not want sex. She was quite conniving and gave an argument that made me feel guilty and I liked like that for 5 years. Then I met a very nice woman that was a year older than me. Became close friends, intimate friends. My friend didn’t suggest it but I finally got the balls to divorce the wife, and now I’m living happy

Yeah, me too!
Except she was a hot wife - 9 yrs younger - very experienced with many men. Things were great for the first 14 of our 32 yrs together.
Then menopause.
She says, "if you want to touch me - anywhere! Go ahead!"
I did a few times - it was like intimately touching a woman in a coma.
No talking. Just laid there. Not keen on spreading her legs far enough for a mouse to fuck her. She used to spread so wide for her many lovers!
I got a finger in her about 9 yrs ago. Felt weird so I quickly got it out of her.
I got her very drunk last month. Put her on her stomach and stripped her bikin panties off- spread her cheeks and buried my face in her butt!
I was making all kinds of noises...! Not a sound from her.
Afterwards, she said, "that felt nice!"
I'm friggin loyal as a dog - it would kill my 2 kids if I divorced her.....even though they noticed that she never touches me....or them - for that matter.
Sex was supposed to lead to bonding! She's got lots of other stuff on her plate....I ain't one of them!