My girlfriend says I'm too big
I have only had sex 3 times now with my girlfriend of 9 months. She told me I was too big for penitration, causing her to rip the last time we had sex.
I don't make a habit of checking out other guys, so I didn't believe her. She got a tape measure out and I'm almost 12 inches hard, and thick enough that I can't close my fingers to my thumb around it. I just thought that was normal size for guys, but she says it's not.
If women can push out a baby from down there, than surely she can take whatever I have. I think she's lying and I'm thinking about leaving her.
She says she's not sleeping with anyone else, but who knows.
So here is my questions.
1. Is 11.75 inches big?
2. Do you think she's sleeping with someone else?
3. Why can't she take me?
4. Should I leave her and ask out this other girl I like?