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My lover cheated with someone I know
Okay this is a bit of a twisted story. A little over a year ago my sister's boyfriend/fiance' and I began chatting on social media. shortly after meeting in person we started having sex. He left my sister to be with me but the problem is I am married and he came to live with me in our home but as a friend. Things were great we had a secret sex/relationship going on then had a huge fight and he went looking online for hook ups. He seen a girl I know on one and I knew he had perhaps messaged her on there don't know for sure but anyways after that whenever he seen her he would be all like weird and I knew he wanted her but will continue that part later because that continues after this part. So he met a girl on there they started fooling around and I had no clue, but he was still living with me and over time having sex with me again too and I thought we were making up (we had broken up the month before) so I had asked him to see his phone but he refused but wanted to see mine and I never said no. So one morning I woke up and grabbed what I thought was mine as we have identical phones and I pushed the on button and when I reaiized it was his I though hmm so punched in the password and checked his texts one said check a email address I didn't know. So I logged on to it and seen a message saying I love you have a great day I was like wtf. So I clicked it took me to a facebook profile I didn't know about and I read and seen their videos and pictures and conversations I stayed up and read as many as I needed to figure out this was someone he was seeing and having sex with as well as me. I woke him up confronted him and he tried to deny it but I had proof. So he told me about her and I told him her or me he chose me, yay me I felt. So we both agreed to work on our relationship and I tried to get over what he did. Fast forward 5 months I play a game which he is linked to so he sends me things for it, he wasn't home so I went on his FB profile and this girl who 's kid and my kid are friends says to him I though you were working tonight. I was like wtf how did she know as they don't talk and I had just unblocked her the other day just womens intuition. So I played along like I was him she was like go on the other profile don't like talking on this one I said was talking to relative so had to stay on that one as I didn't know the other profile info. So didn't take long for her to get into talking about how great the sex was the day before and how she misses him and all the things she wants to do to and with him. It was hard but I played along right up until he got home from work and I confronted him he tried to deny it but I showed him. So I asked her or me and he actually went silent and said he doesn't know. In the end he chose me but the problem is this girl is very emotionally unstable and has messaged me since as I at this moment have her kid sleeping over as her and my kid are best friends. She is going on about how hurt she is and betrayed but he cheated on me and he told her about me before they started up even told her not to tell me so she knew about me and him and still chose to have sex with him. So the problem is that I have to keep being polite and friendly for our kids sake but also because she knows my husband. With her unstability I am so scared she is going to tell my hubby because she is so hurt over what bf did in choosing me over her. Its harder because she is playing victim and I am just trying to move on from it but she won't let it go and tonight was a knock at the door late at night to us bf and I were panicking thinking its her coming to tell hubby everything thank goodness it wasn't but now we are both so scared she is going to just blurt it out to hubby or someone who will tell him. I told him of all people to fuck had to be her, my daughters best friends mom which will always be a constant reminder of what he did. We are working on building a relationship together yes I am even leaving hubby but not yet as some things take time. I am now in constant fear that she will expose us to him with messages of proof. I may have won him but I am not sure that the prize was worth the effort.
You're complaining about cheating as you cheat on your husband. Stop.
Classic. You realize you don't have a leg to stand on. What's happening is called Karma. You want to justify your actions? Seriously? You need to have your head examined, trying to justify this MESS that you created. You cheated with a cheater.. everything and anything coming your way is your consequence for your shitty actions. You cheated on your sister and your husband and you think you deserve to have someone be faithful to you. LMAO. This is the funniest thing I have ever read! I hope that chick exposes you. On a real note.. How can you live with this drama? You need to go to a therapist ASAP and work this shit out and figure out what the fuck is wrong with you. Why you feel the need to cheat and have a lack of self esteem.
Seriously... You're surprised he cheated on you, when you got together by him cheating on your sister with you... And you're mad at him for cheating, while you're cheating on your husband... Seriously?... Seriously?... Like really, seriously?
Speaking from experience, your hubby knows. He is crazy if he doesn't. Maybe he doesn't care or is waiting for you to make up your mind and stay or leave. My wife started cheating, it took a few months to prove it, now she is on her own.