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I've been friends with this guy now for a very long today. Basically have been best friends since 8th grade. Since then we have obviously grown up and have our own lives and so we don't see each other as much. We are both married, in our late 20's, but we usually find time to see each other here and there. We've never been in a relationship with each other or even had sex, but we've just been very close friends. Recently he found out that his wife of 8 years had been cheating on him. Needless to say he was pretty devastated and they will most likely be getting divorced. He asked to hang out at his place and have drinks so I said sure and my hubby was ok with it. I went there to comfort him, he was upset, cried a little, I was there for him just like I had always been in the past and like he has been for me. Eventually he asked me if I could cheer him up like back in the day. I knew what this meant. A couple of times in the past there had been times when I gave him a blowjob when he was down. Not for sexual reasons, but I did it twice back in my younger days and well it is what it is. Long story short, I ended up doing it for him. Like I've said, we've always been close, we've seen each naked countless times and so even though it's a blowjob I know that neither one of us would consider it a problem like that. Heck we didn't even kiss. I stroked him till he was hard, started sucking for a bit. He did ask me if I could take my top off which I did; I know he has a thing for big boobs and it's not like he hasn't seen them before. Anyway I sucked him until he was about to cum, even talking to him like normal while doing it. Nothing sexual going on. He told me when he was about to cum so that I would stop and I let him cum on my boobs and that was it. Probably 7 minutes or so. I know most would think it's probably wrong that I did this but I don't think most (especially hubby) would understand that it meant nothing to either of us, other than to make him feel a little better in a really bad moment of his life. Am I totally wrong? Do I tell hubby? What do you think?
This was very unusual circumstances for sure. Interesting chain of events.
I am 23 female and our neighbor who a big sweed recently went thru a divorce and he was devastated to say the least. Well I started in going over and having coffee with him just about every morning and he seemed to like my company.
Last week he asked me if I ever have given BJ's and I said yes a few years ago back in college since then ? I said no he said shame for you have beautiful lips and I'd love to cum across them and kinda laughed. Kinda took me by surprise for we never talked about sex or anything. I sat there but he walked over to me started in rubbing his hardening coc k against my lips bending down kissing the top of my head I gave the tip of his cock a lick and kiss.
I ended up blowing him to ejaculation and swallowed every bit of his cum and still stroked his semi hard cock and started in running my toung along his shaft and kissing his head. head of his cock that is.
He continued to breath hard telling me you haven't lost your touch at all and gave me a kiss right on my lips a big kiss and I returned his and we started in making out for the next two hours. We were naked and I tried to get him up but he was spent so I ended giving him another BJ till he couldn't take it anymore.]
I kissed him and told him as I was kissing him he unleashed a nymph in me and any time you want a BJ from me take hold of my head and give me a kiss and I'll go down on you.
Don't tell your husband. He would NOT understand. Your relationship with your friend is unusual I think. It is pretty special though.
You will want to watch it though. Your friend is vulnerable and you just showed him the kind of love he has probably not seen/felt in years. He may be coming back for more. He might even be thinking of how he really screwed up by not ever trying to make things work out romantically between the two of you. He might be realizing how important it is to be friends with your spouse, and how great what you two have always had.
So he might start to get attached to you that way.
I think the OP did a wonderful thing. Hidden in society are people (mostly girls) who occasionally do something for a guy. I'm pretty socially awkward. Never had a gf in high school or uni. I was smart academically but just could not get a gf. Anyway once at uni this girl asked me about it and we had this long conversation and the end was she came over and let me touch her body. No sex but she let me run my hands over her and kiss her. Still the best memory I have and she is a wonderful person.
For all the people coming down on the OP. I just want to say I know where she is coming from. All through my teens my best friend was a guy. We dated other people but when one of us were single we took care of the other sexually. It was never more than two friends helping each other out. While dating my husband , I had sex with Jerry three times while he was recovering from a break up ,he started dating another girl ,all was good. While married I have slept with him probably 10 times. He is married now so its been a while since we have slept together. Is it cheating ,yes it is, but its just a bond we have between us, we have been best friends for over 35 years and have always taken care of one another. I know its not something most people can understand simply because they can't separate sex from emotions.
Your justification of its no big deal, he has seen my tits before and I sucked his cock a few times to make him feel better, so sucking it again is no big deal is ridiculous ! That's like saying you should be able to sleep with all your past lovers because ,hey, you did it before so its no big deal! I'm pretty sure you know your husband would not except that logic. If you tell him your friendship with this guy is over as well as your marriage being in real trouble.
Not something you should've done, but I wouldn't be that mad cuz it's someone you've known for a long time instead of someone you just met & it wasn't anything more, and as long as it doesn't happen again.
Did u not let him lick your wet cunt ?
I think anything you have to keep a secret from your husband as far as your relationship goes with this guy is cheating. You know he wouldn't understand you sucking this guys cock but you did it anyway . He trusts the two of you to just be friends and you broke that trust. You say its not emotional and was just a blowjob to make him feel better but obviously there is deep emotional feelings between you if were willing to cheat on your husband to make him feel good. To me blowjobs are very intimate more so than even fucking as its just you trying to pleasure the other person . I guess the big question is , if he asked you again tomorrow to suck his cock would you? and what about the day after that? Its a slippery slope!
My wife and I are both Bi and consider oral gratification a form of masturbation. We have orally shared dicks and pussy.
What if he just wanted to put the tip in your pussy would that be cheating??
Yes that would be cheating. But again I'm not saying I didn't cheat, I'm just saying I don't think it was a big deal if emotions weren't involved.
If your husband ate some girls pussy he knew out would you be pissed??
Did you read any of the other comments before adding your own?
If I were your husband and found out about it, I'd be pretty devastated and inclined for revenge. What you did was sooooo wrong.
If I knew every single thing my husband has ever done since we've been together, I'm sure the revenge would be mine.
Just curious, OP: if your friend was crying, and had asked you for a short fuck to feel better--maybe just a few strokes--five or six at the most, but nothing so that either of you would cum--would you have done it? Would that be considered cheating?
No I wouldn't have done that and yes I would consider that cheating. I never said that what I did isn't considered cheating.
Uh, "nothing sexual going on," lmfao. Any time a guy blows his sperm over your tits, something sexual went on.
Don't tell your hubby, and yeah, you are wrong in what you did. You are married. Would you be okay with your husband licking the pussies of other women, because it would "cheer them up"?
Ok, fair enough. I can't say that it's not sexual, but I was just trying to imply the meaninglessness (if that's a word) of what happened. To answer your question, no I wouldn't be ok with that, but it depends on the situation. If we are talking about some girl on the street, no I'm not ok with that. But he knows my friend, knows we are close and that we have been close for a very long time. If the roles were reversed, it would be hypocritical of me to blame him. At the same time, I probably wouldn't want to know if he did.
No there's no need to tell hubby as you say it is what it was and others won't see it that way
Thanks for your input!
Keep sucking and enjoying his cock. Worship it. You probably make him feel special. Im 35 and have been sucking my friends cock since we were 17. Though his girlfriend and now wife. The look on his face during and after. It's hot knowing what I'm doing to him. Husband watches sometimes.