Caught wife cheating

I was in exactly the same situation as you, she to didn't even try to deny it and said that because I only fucked her once a week she needed more and had joined a website for sex starved wives! Why didn't you mention anything I said to her? I tried to she said then I couldn't stop myself meeting other men! So how many has there been I asked? I've got no idea she said but over 50! You've slept with 50 different men I said? I'm sorry but it just got out of hand my wife said to me! With that her phone went off, who's that I said? Nobody just give me the phone she said, really! Let me see, it was a message from some guy saying that he couldn't wait to fuck her later that night! Are you going to meet him after this I asked her? No of course I won't she said but what if I want you to I said? I'm sorry but you want me to meet up with him she said? Maybe I do I admitted to her! You'd watch another man fucking me she asked? I would love to I told her! You kinky bastard she called me, she messaged the guy back saying that I wanted to watch them and he was all for it, it was my first experience of being a cuckold husband and I can't get enough of it

Yikes that's a sucky situation bud, is your wife hot.?? &' how old is she.?

42 and yes she is

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Get out. Don't hesitate, don't walk, run as fast as you can.
Women don't cheat because they are bored or want some spice in their lives.
They cheat because they want a new partner and use their body to lure you in.
Been there done that and wished I'd have listened.

My girlfriend and I had been together for 4 years. We dated for 10 months. Then, she ended up pregnant. So we moved in together.
My GF was very protective of her phone and tablet. I was not permitted to touch or even go near them. She would even take them both with her when she went to the bathroom, left the apartment, or went anywhere.
She came down with covid in 2021 and was in bed for a week, and she slept a lot before she started feeling better. During this time, I was able to access her phone and tablet because she left them unlocked.
I wish I had never done it. Not only did I find out that she had been cheating on me. But it was with a guy she had been seeing since before we started going out. Not only had she been cheating on me all that time. From what I got from the conversation between the two of them, apparently my 2.5 year old daughter was his and not mine.
I waited until she had recovered from covid before I confronted her about it. Plus, I need that much time to get my head straight about it. So I didn't blow up and act like an asshole.
When I did confront her, she blew up, and acted like a real bitch about it. On top of that, she demanded that I leave. She then went saw a lawyer and brought me up on charges for stalking and invasion of privacy. I was arrested and charged. I couldn't afford a lawyer because she emptied our joint bank account. So, I had to use a fresh out of law school public defender. I spent 22 days in jail waiting for my trial date to come up. Because I couldn't afford bail. I ended up being sentenced to one year in jail, a restraining order that I couldn't be within 100 yards of her. The worst part was since they proved our daughter wasn't mine, I was denied any type of visitation rights to the child I'd raised for 2.5 years.
I lost everything, just because I was nosey.

What a horrible woman. The heartlessness… women can be so cold.

Did you write the story about wife cheating on husband because he got fat. Similar writing styles and seems to be an exact situation from his perspective rather than hers.

I feel you brother same boat here. Staying with her is the worst thing you can do to yourself and your kids. I went thru the same crap I know of 3 times she cheated and I stuck around. Don't get me wrong I have had my fun a good 70 woman. I said fuck it if she can do I can . But at the end of the day I wished I left her years ago we are in our fifties now and it was a waste of my life. I told the kids and confronted her
and she did not deny it and there all adults when the last time it all came out. Two of my kids said how come you did not just leave her they would not stand for that in there relationships from there spouse. Even till this day they would not be mad if I got up and left or told her to leave. She always going to cheat on you brother it's a given in her nature. She lacks respect for you and your relationship. When someone cheats it's a choice they make not a mistake. They know what they are doing. When a women open her legs to another man she giving her all here take me and do as you please at her most intimate time and when they do trust me they do things to her she won't let you do that's a fact. I do not regret any the women I slept with at first it was for payback but then it was fuck it I can and she cares less if I do . They only regret it if they get caught and it's the getting caught there pissed about not fucking someone else. You will regret it down the road if you stick around you will rob your life of true happiness. Just how it is now eating at your brain as you lay in bed next to her.

I know it's just hard to do after 25 yrs and family ties etc....when I found out she blamed me for gaining weight and not being the same as when we met and it's true I did gain too much weight I got complacent but the text I read were graphic and I was stunned and I can't stop thinking about the things I read no matter what she says....and tbh the dude she fucked was busted at least cheat with someone who is hot then I could be jealous but not of this dude.....we've always had a good sex life and she's great in bed so that makes me pissed knowing he got to experience her in that way....some people say don't be a prude it's just sex and make the experience work in my favor but I haven't been able to do that ..... we're both in our 40s and I could find another partner so I'm at a crossroads thanks for the advice

Same story here brother. I thought we had a great sex life. Yet you know she gave them the real slutty sex. Pisses you off. First caught mine at the 10 year marriage, but kids were little. Stayed, but caught her again at 19 years. Divorced her. It s traumatic., but now I am 59, with a HOT 53 year old brunette that needs to be finished doggie style literally almost every time, and loves getting my cock in her mouth. Our kids blended well. Now the Ex is alone after 12 years since the divorce and ...well....fuck her.

Congrats nothing better then seeing the ex alone.

Dude don't blame yourself you gained weight or she did that's a copout . It was her choice plain and simple not once but twice and those are the ones you know about. Trust it's happen more then that . I hate to say it but they are cumdumpsters no other way to put it. My wife and yours

Drive thru the cross roads brother before you get hit by a train. You are wasting your time with her. I bet she laughs a lot alone or in the other room . She loves to talk about other people I bet cause she got issue and trust me she talks behind your back . Once you realize it was a waste of time will be to late. I wish you the best I tell you from a man of experience.

This is great advise. When a woman tell you that "we" can work through this, it's fem speak for "I gotta get my ducks in a row and find someone else before I drop him"
I made the same mistake, but once it's broke, I don't think you can fix it.

Don't be such a prude. Most married women have had affairs on the side, just like most married men do. Sexual needs are important, and it is hard to satisfy with the same person only. Usually the sex gets better at home when she fools around! She still loves you. Be proud.

Exactly pussy is not made to be monogamous! They like variety and that's just the fact of life. I've never been with another woman because of my small penis. But my wife has been with countless men and I approve of it for her. We have a great marriage we love each other dearly she gets extra cock by Well endowed men usually has regulars that come over and I am proud of her.

Bring your girl friend home and fuck her in front of your wife

Hell, slut her out first then leave. Bring your friends over to fuck her. Have some fun! I.it may save your relationship of you like it! I love my wife and also love it when she comes home full of cum for me to eat out of her! Use that ho!

Yeah - man up! Join a gym and get fit.
Make her crazy!

Time to regain your self respect and leave. If you think that was the only affair, you are probably mistaken. She just got better at hiding them. If doesn't matter what the kids think. They will get over it. You need to do it for yourself. Man up.