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Husband and I have been married 12 years, have 2 kids, and yeah, the bedroom had become boring. My husband asked me if I'd go to a swingers club and at first I thought he was out of his fucking mind. I finally said ok and we went and it wasn't as nasty as I'd thought it would be. The people were actually clean and nice. I can't say anyone was really attractive, but neither are we, and I guess people just want to fuck anyway. The first time we just watched others, took in the vibe, and saw weird shit like fat guys in their 60s fucking women in their 20s (viagra works) and guys in their 20s fucking old hags. My husband and I had sex there that time, but just with each other. The second time forward we screwed other people. We've visited the club six times.
My husband and I are white. What's weird is that the only people my husband wants to fuck are non-whites. He's into black and hispanic women mostly, but he fucked a Korean woman once too. Every time we've gone he zeroes in on those types, and doesn't care to play with white women at all. At home he still has sex with me, but he doesn't get into it like he does when he's fucking black women at the club. I know he's not going to leave me or anything, but I think he resents me a little because I'm white. I'm a little confused by all of this.
It is very cool that you are both enjoying yourselves and that it hasn’t affected your personal life.
So who do you pick to have sex with? And when you do have sex at the swingers club are you any different in how you perform?
I wouldn’t worry at all about him and his picks.
This post makes me think back to me and my ex-wife’s swingers club experiences. I’ll write it up and send it.
J
He already has a white woman. He's spicing it up with something new. You should do the same. Try a big black one, i hear they're good.
The best thing about swinger clubs is unrestricted sex, the opportunity to fuck like you've always wanted. A place where love is taboo because it interferes with fucking. Just let him have what he wants and you do the same, after all isn't that why you swing?
He’s leaving you soon enough with your uppity white pussy
That's interesting, and not to make simple comparisons, but, when you go out to a resturant, don't you usually get something you don't cook at home ?
I would not stress over it much! The mind is biggest sex organ. Maybe let your mind get a little wild. Just let him know what you feel for him.