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He's 52, big and strong, but uncaring, no empathy. He does not love me. Let me make that clear, he does everything a wife would want a husband to do, but he shows no emotions, does not really hold conversations with me and when it comes to sex, he rarily wants intercourse, but he wants oral every single night for 2 hours or more at a time, but he shows no compassion, no tenderness ... just deep throat fucking and face fucking.
I'm not his wife, not really his girlfriend. I live with him and he has taken care of me and my daughter. I pay my way by keeping his place clean. I've done it for 10 years now. We don't even share the same bedroom, only when he wants some head or once a month he wants to anally fuck me. I want more from him. I want him to at least acknowledge me sometimes. I get birthday gifts, I get to go out to dinner with him twice a week at some very nice 4 and 5 star places. He takes me to musical venues and concerts, but he does not hold me or caress me at all ... well he does hold my head at times when he's shoving that dick down my throat or facefucking my mouth. I don't like that part of sex and want to tell him
but I'm so afraid that he will tell me to leave if I do, so I keep putting up with it. When my daughter lived here(she's 22 now)I gave her to him as a birthday present. She was only 15 then (I know I was wrong), but she said he only fucked her face half the night. He could have had her many nights, but only allowed her that one time.
He's helped her too in many many ways, with her apartment, her car, her schooling etc, and has asked for nothing in return. I want another woman to take my place in the facefucking department. I'm 41 y/o any advice?
Leave get your own place. I'm a 31 old male I work full time. I wish I could find an older woman who would dominate me. A D/s relationship. I can work and pay for what I can. You should be given massages worshiped from your feet to your tits your ass and your pussy when ever you want! I've never had an orgasm from a blowjob. I don't care for them much. Don't get me wrong they feel great but I never ask for them! I would rather eat your pussy have you cumm then fuck you as we cum together. You can even have me go down on you cumm and then relax while I lay next to you admiring your beauty, as I stay hard for you!
Do you do any drugs? I’m a man, I’ve been in similar situations - most of my childhood and a couple of years after. Rough Oral and anal sex is far more tolerable when you’re high. I was also sucking off high guys who could take 5-6 hours before they came, and somehow I did it, but I was so high it felt like 20 minutes. Not telling you to be a junkie, but there are ways to make it better. I usually blow a Huge load getting assfucked when high. The downside is I’m almost 100% straight when I’m sober, but as soon as I get high there is pretty much nothing I won’t do for anyone. Can be scary.
Why don’t you just leave?
I can be you fwb
If you are around Ky?
Find a fwb
And don’t worry about him
If you want to get out just leave. It does sound like you have feelings for him. Ask him to love you and show you some love, if he doesn’t want to then leave.
After 10-years he's not going to change, what you see is what you get. He's using you for his own satisfaction and demonstrates this by his preference in sex, throat and face fucking with the occasional anal. He shows you no emotion or empathy because he has none for you. You are no more important to him that a can opener; there when wanted, ignored when not. Should you fail to carry out your function (cleaning or sex) he will simply replace you with another. As for your daughter, you think he only used her that one time, but she's been going back to him on a regular basis to fulfill other needs.
He's obviously using you, so I would say try and get another place of your own and be independant, he's a control freak, and I find it strange that he rarely wants intercourse and only wants you to suck his cock, I think you giving your 15 year old daughter to him is sick though, but he knows you are afraid of him and he gets you to do anything he wants, he sounds like a real nutter, get out and get out now, hope my advice helps you, best of luck, I think you'll need it.