How I feel while it's happening
My husband and I watched Fifty shades of gray, we have sex a fair amount and enjoy it. I think we both look for ways to keep it fresh and new.
We don't like porn, too fake, at least the story line.
From the beginning, I would ask him what kind of thing's he had done and what he enjoyed. He was a little unsure at first as to what he thought would be safe to say. As I was asking him, he started asking me the same.
Other boyfriends I had, would enjoy going places and doing things with friends for a while, but not too much later that would peter out we would be doing the same thing, go to work, eat, watch a movie at home or just tv, go to bed have sex and go to sleep.
He was different he wanted balance, work and play, and part of his play was to stay in shape. We would go to the gym, go on hikes, I never had to come up with something to do, he was always thinking of places to go or things to do.
In some ways he was spontaneous, that turned out to be great for me. A weekend would go by fast, but even after work we would be doing things, so the week would also go fast.
I have a close girlfriend that I saw a fair amount before we met, I still wanted to see her when we could, but in the past other boyfriends would after some time complain about it, so I saw her less and less.
When I would tell Pete I was thinking of going out with her he would say, be safe, have fun, tell her I said hello. He never asked if I would go another night or can't you just stay home. He wanted me to enjoy my time with my friend. Balance, you need it, that's how he thought.
One day we took a day hike, I had made some food for us to eat and we had our water, and I brought a little wine. After hiking for a while we had stopped to rest and have a drink, it was warm out, and he took off his shirt to cool down, he poured us a drink and we sat and looked around us at how beautiful the setting was. I looked at him leaning back, taking in the sun, I loved how he looked with his shirt off. I told him it's not fair that he can take off his shirt, and I have to keep mine on. He looked at me and said I never said you have to keep your shirt on.
I asked him if he would enjoy me taking off my shirt? Yes, I think we both would enjoy that, with a smile. I looked around and saw no one. So I took my top off, as he watched me he said even better a no bra day. I smiled and told him I prefer not wearing one when we go on our hikes, at this point most of the hikes we had gone on it was cold out and he would have never known. He said well it feels good doesn't it, Yes it really does.
He said you know what feels even better? What, He said standing up and walking around, looking around, with your top off. I smiled and said you can walk the whole trail without a top. Yes, true, but I don't so when I take my top off it feel even better, and as you have seen the few people we have seen today all had their top's on, so it feel's like you're doing something that a lot of people just wouldn't not do.
I understood that, I was enjoying my top off, I knew it was possible someone might catch us off guard. We sat for another ten minutes or so and then thought it time to head on. When I got up I asked him if we could see far ahead on the trail? He looked at me and said we have to go, maybe a half mile before we get to a point where you could look down and see a good amount of the trail, till then your topless at your own risk. I asked him how he knew what I was thinking? Just a guess. Ok top on for now.
We got to an area, that when I looked out I could see a good amount of the trail, still with tree's around us, I stopped and took my top off, I could tell Pete was very happy. As we started to walk on, he said do you remember saying you had never been tied up in bed? I looked at him with a bit of a surprise, and said yes I remember. With that, he said today is your lucky day.
He came over to me with a light rope took my pack off crabbed one hand and tied it to a limb on a tree then the other, I was very surprised and excited. He asked if I was ok, the rope is not too tight is it. No, it is just right, what now? He undid my shorts and dropped them to the ground than my underwear. Oh your nut's. He sucked on my nipples and slide his fingers in me and got me so horny. Then he said, I'll be back in a few and walked off.
Just minute's later he came up from behind me, running his hand's up and down my body. I was so nervous and excited. He got down in front of me and started licking my soaking wet pussy, after a few minute's he untied me and had me leaning forward facing the tree, he grabbed my hip's and started pounding me hard. We both came. He pulled his pants up and walked off. I got dressed and found him sitting on a rock, sipping on some wine with a glass for me. He looked at me and said well now you can say you have been tied up.
Pretty sexy fun.