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Dad: just dear, or danger
I'm a 21year old, female still living with my parents as my father is really fond of me and won't hear of my moving out. He is very caring and sweet to me. He brings me gifts often, and compliments me on how i look everyday. He asks me to sit close to him often and loves to pet my thighs and touch my face. He even argues in my support to my mom. She is pretty jealous of the attentions he gives me too. He even compliments my figure. He doesn't however allow me to go on any date. He insists i don't lock my room during night-time and often checks on my room during night just to see if i've slept (i usually sleep very late so i know)... And insists i sleep without my quilt, unless it's middle of winter. And if he has to wake me up for any reason, he always either prods me by touching my curves or wherever my night dress has slipped to reveal bare skin.
It's been like this for over two years (touching and fondling), but he hasn't done anything more. Is he only being a doting father? Or am i in a risk of sexual abuse?
You say its been like that for over two years why don't you make the first its obvious he will not, you haven't rejected his touches, so stop pretending and get on with it
Its only abuse if you don't want it to happen and you are under age
You seem ok with what's going on, him touching and fondling you obviously like it so I don't think you are in any danger you really want things to move further stop kidding yourself. why don't you start sleeping naked and see what happens
Its only abuse if you don't want it to happen , you say he touches and fondles but it doesn't sound like your complaining, I think its time to make your mind up, to stop it all you have to do is lock your door
Stop whining, you have all the power in this relationship. Use it. Start coming onto your dad, be a little coy with him, touch his hand, smile at him, be suggestive. When he tries to touch you tell him you're not ready yet. Tell him you couldn't be with him while he's married to your mother. Tell him you should be the woman of the house. When he pushes for sex tell him he can sit in the corner and masturbate while he looks at you. When he gets close to coming make him stop. Tell him he was too slow, or too small. Flip the entire thing around so you are in charge.
Won't that be only inviting more trouble? I mean playing with his lust and ego can backlash big time!
Its abuse if you don't want it, but you are not a child
I don't want it. But he won't let me move out.
He can not stop you
But he can! You cannot even imagine the emotional blackmailing and drama that ensues everytime i take up the topic.
He's working up to molestation. Tell him to stop and that it's wrong
Creepy. Tell your mom and move out.