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"I'm Extremely attracted to my Father in Law... Help? What to Do?
"So.... I know that I sound crazy.. But I have been Extremely, extremely Attracted to my Father in law.. Ever since the first time that we met about a year ago. I am Turning 27 I'm female, pretty good looking I think solid 8/10, I'm blonde, Skinny. All around quite the catch! My Father in law is: around 56 years old & he's pretty fit for his age, he has a solid career & everything else, I have had feelings for him for quite some time.. To be honest! And I have tried to bury my feelings & they will subside for a bit. Then later on they come crashing back? I start having dreams about him, very erotic dreams at that. ;)
Also I cannot get him out of my thoughts & my mind! He's literally in my mind all day, I get butterflies, sweaty palms & I feel like a school girl all over again when im next to him I try to keep my cool but I'm a mess haha, I hope it's not to obvious.. I try to compose myself. Anyways when he first met me? He told my husband that I was very, very attractive, very hot/sexy and that he was a lucky man. After that when we moved closer to my FiL, he literally told everyone he knew about me, he told everyone I was a straight stunner (10/10) (Model looks).
Around Halloween we were all Partying together, my husband was totally out of it at the bar, I was also very intoxicated.. As well as my FiL. We ended up sharing a kiss. Then 3x's after that we ALL partied together @ different events and I ended up kissing him again?! Ahhh I was Sooo embarrassed & I was terrified my Husband was going to flip on me?!. But shockingly he saw everything and he said he didn't care at all?? He said he thought it was funny?? Huh.... Weird? Right!......
So furthermore! My FiL always, checks me out, his eyes gaze over my body, he always compliments me (says I look beautiful etc, etc), also he maintains intense eye contact with me, we always hug goodbye and I usually kiss him on the cheek. Again my husband knows ALL this! He's there & has seen It and doesn't care!, doesn't even bat an eye?!.
So another thing is! My FiL consistently picks me up from work, gives me money, coffee, clothes, mountain bike, sweets/treats, food etc. See I don't know if he's just trying to support and provide for my Husband and I and mainly me, or if he is attracted to me? And has feelings for me? We usually flirt with each other as well. It's almost hard to tell... I feel it could be taken either way... I'm pretty good at reading people and sometimes I feel that the feeling is 100% mutual !! But other times I wonder if I'm just tripping... It's hard to tell.
I would do anything at this point to know! I'm honestly considering having a private/Intimate 1/1 conversation in a private setting with my FiL to ask him about all this? But I am really, really nervous & scared.. I don't know if it will work out or not?.. I don't want him to think I'm weird, also I don't want to freak him out, I really don't want it to backfire/blow up in my face. Even if our relationship doesn't go any further... :( it would be really nice to know!, for peice of mind!. I dunno I feel really lost in all this.... Almost feel as if I'm in a dangerous love triangle haha. Oh and by the way My Husband and I have had an extremely Rocky Union the past year.... We have almost separated numerous times.... He's been without work/job for a year in June, he also never puts any effort into himself, into me, our relationship, our future or our home, I feel as if he's: "Given up on us", he has also Hit me unfortunately.. I have tried working on myself, our relationship the entire time 100% I have tried to talk it out.. And I'm always told to fuck off and shut up basically and that everything is my fault!.
So yeah needless to say my feelings for my Father in Law are growing each day... And I'm starting to want him more and more, to the point where I would love to date him or have an intimate relationship with him, and I'm loosing feelings/interest for my husband, the pain and strife is too much to bear.. I'm starting to give up... I am wanting out now..
Any advice, insight, input, or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!, I know this whole situation sounds messed.... Please try to be Empathetic.. Or don't answer at all. If you need me to Write more on the subject let me know! Thanks in advance!! Yah'll
---lost & confused! Xo xox
So I never had a good relationship with my father growing up, eventhough that is all I wanted. I tried and tried to be the best daughter I could for him to love me but it never worked. I ended up killing myself for a father daughter relationship I was never going to get. Now I'm in a marriage where I feel like I'm more attracted to my father in law than my husband. I try and try to suppress feelings because I know I messed up it is, but it doesn't help when my FIL stares and flirts with me. His relationship has been rocky with his wife (not saying that as an excuse, I'm saying that it seems to make things harder in suppressing my feelings.) I need help with logically thinking out my feelings, I feel like the feelings were created because my FIL gives me more of a sense of security than anyone does. I don't want to act on these feelings but I am also tired of feeling it. How do I make myself stop thinking these things?
Update please im in the same situation
What happened??
My FIL first kissed me at his son's and my reception and believe me he really kissed me and the third kiss he was holding me tight against him and I could very well feel his cock getting harder and harder against my pubs.
As time has gone by Jim my FIL has gotten more and more bold including coming up behind me taking hold of my breasts and play with my nips making them hard and sensitive to his touches, kissing my neck and I'd try to tell him to stop but I can't quite get the word stop out and I let him totally arouse me as he whispers sweet words into my ears.
Two days ago I gave myself totally and willingly to Jim and he filled my puss with his cum four times that afternoon and god what a cock. Now I find myself wanting him just as much as he wants me and I let him have me any time he decides that he wants me which is often. I even dress the way he wants me to. A thin summer dress no bra or panties and I love the way he stares at me devouring me with his eyes.
Jim now comes over for dinner every night and stays well after I usually go to bed and his son Wayne and Jim stay up and talk or just watch the movie that's on the TV. I never know when Wayne comes to bed for I am sound asleep but last night Jim comes into my bed room gives me a kiss and I woak up hearing him tell me good night and he'll see me tomorrow kissing me again.
I live with my father in law in the same house. My husband lives in other city for work. My father in law was a sportsman by virtue of which he is still fit & fine. The problem was couldn't have my privacy. I noticed my father in law watching me many a times when I dressed a little carefree or when I came out of the bathroom just wearing a towel. I noticed him getting hard on when I breast feeded my child. In the beginning he use to leave the room but now he stays back. This made me horny. Now I bare my top completely flashing both boobs & ask him to wipe excess milk oozing out. He happily does that while gently squizzing my boobs. We did everything in bed which a young married couple would do in honeymoon. I am addicted & loving it.