Men, should my boyfriend be mad at me?

So when I'm on my time of the month my boyfriend is left unsatisfied. We don't have sex because I cramp too much and honestly it grosses me out. Today, I let slip that I had masturbated earlier and he got really upset he wasn't included. I informed him that it was clitoral which is all I can manage until my cramps go away. Apparently him being included meant he expected a blow job, which would have only left him satisfied, not me. Does he have a right to be angry? I understand him being upset at me a little because we haven't had sex in days and I haven't given him so much as a hand job but let me give you some background. He has a desensitized penis. If I'm pleasuring him he is only really happy with a blow job (he says he can do a hand job himself), but because he is desensitized it can often take up to forty-five minutes. I choke during most of it and often times throw up or severely gag at least once. My throat and jaw are then sore for a couple of days. It is a pretty awful experience. He also takes it personally if I don't swallow. So overall, I'm completely miserable during it and sore after it. I also have to not eat for several hours beforehand or I will throw up what I ate beforehand because I have a really sensitive gag reflex. Now my question is, should he be angry about me masturbating and not taking care of him?

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