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Obey 24/7 or be punished
I agreed to be an obedient wife before we married. If I hesitate in any way, or don't do what I'm told, I have to strip completely and get a hard hand spanking over his knee. I agreed with the punishment part before we were married too, and we started while we were engaged so I would get used to it and know what I was getting into beforehand. He spanks me until he feels I've learned my lesson, which is usually a few minutes after I start crying and kicking my legs fiercely. Afterwards, I have to stay naked the rest of the night because he says humiliation teaches obedience. I must also thank him for punishing me and apologize for what I did wrong, and then give him oral sex on my knees until he comes, swallowing every drop and then licking him clean. I try really hard to obey, because it IS humiliating to be spanked by my husband, and even worse is to have to be naked for the remainder of the day when he gets to wear clothes. I love him dearly and he treats me like a queen. It doesn't happen too often, as I have learned quickly to do what I'm told! I would never think of leaving him. Does anyone else have to do this?
It would be even better if he punished you regardless of whether anyone else was there to see it. Or if he invited friends over afterwards and they saw you naked with a red bottom. Or let his friends do some of the spankings.
My wife was cold and uninterested in sex. I actually was feeling really down about it. One day I was at a church function of all things and I got chatting to a lady I had not seen for years. I told her things were not going well and I said if ever I have an affair it will be with someone totally the opposite to my wife. I told her I'd want someone who does not have hang ups about sex.
maybe six months later we met again by coincidence and a bit more conversation. One topic we discussed was "Submission". Something my wife has a total block about. She has to totally be in control. I told her I thought submission was strong but you did have to be willing to trust and to "let go". I said I would want a gf or affair with someone who was willing to give all and let go of all and that I would make that clear right at the start.
We ended up meeting weekly for coffee and chat. During that I said that if ever I was having a relationship / affair that I would want to spank her.
FF 6 months and its a full on affair. She wears skimpy short skirts. I've spanked her and whipped her. The really nice thing is the whippings are a real demonstration of obedience and submission. She's told me that she does find a light hand spanking arousing but only submits to the whipping because of me. Sometimes it takes 3 weeks for the damage to heal.
I don't understand how staying naked is humiliating? My wife and I are naked after work everyday and all weekend as it's relaxing. I get to see her sexy body and her every movement around the house.
It's humiliating when he's dressed, but I'm not allowed to be--also, because we aren't undressed on a regular basis like you are. Big difference when you have to be instead of when you want to be.
No it isn't normal. But if you are both faithful and have a good marriage then I would just try to please him. Maybe he was brought up that way. Find ways to please him and enjoy him.
Oh that sounds delightful. I would love to be dominated like that. I love to have my husband cum in my mouth and over my breasts after doing something intentionally bad; I also get tied as I like the feeling of being helpless. I do have to be totally naked just topless till I apologise for being a bad girl [of course I don't]
Ummmmm... no.