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Every time I masturbate I think of my best friend. I think she's really cute but I always thought I was atracted to guys (I'm a girl by the way). One time we were alone and it was really hard for me to not touch her or kiss her. I'm only thirteen and so confused! Is something wrong with me? Help!
You are only thirteen and having normal reactions of being human. You may actually want to follow your feelings some day and experiment with her. just be careful
Cut to the core and have a threesome. You will learn alot about you and much more. I did!! I would never change the lesson.
You have had some good advice so far honey and there is not too much I can add. I am very much bi-sexual and I am very over-sexed - I work in the porn industry btw, but I am a lot older than you. At your age I also got a bit confused and I was convinced I was 100% lez. But as you get older you change, that is 100% normal. I know a few guys who had gay experiences at your age, maybe only mild ones though, but as they got into their 20s they became 100% hetero. At 13 there will be all sorts of things happening in your life. Just don't worry you will work out your orientation and think about who you want when you masturbate, that's your call honey.
Hey I'm 15 turning 16 this year female.. I have actually come out now and admiring to beig bisexual, and it's comletely fine! When I was ur age I was doing the same thing and to be completely honest I still do! I have had relationships with girls in the past and I agree that thinking of them instead of a male is ten times more arousing! I can understand people are thinking you can't be sure at your age and that may be the case, but my advice is to go for it and experiment. X
Please be carefully its ok having those feelings before trying to kiss her make sure that she feels the same if not there will be more women/girls that will be happy to make out with you and more
Before you go all, you're this way or that, you are only 13. I got boners all the time at your age seeing naked people (either sex). Never had a homo experience, had sex with my first girl a year later. It's been that way ever since. Don't be so quick to think you have to have eyerything figured out right now. As far as your friend, I'd be VERY careful before I made a move or shared my feelings aobut her, with her.
It sounds like you are bisexual, meaning you are attracted to both genders
just like other sexual orientations, or the color of your hair, it's not a choice, people are born that way
it's more common then most people think,
but most deny it, because sadly, not everyone is understanding about those things.. :(