I feel ashamed that I have a rape fetish

I think most guys have it in their brain to think about it. Likely not do it, but, their hidden mind enjoys the idea and watching. That's why we'll replay movie scenes, like from The Accused, where Jodie Foster gets raped on the pinball machine, or the cult classic, I Spit On Your Grave, where the woman is repeatedly gang raped on a rock, in the house, etc, until she ends up killing each guy. Guys know it's sick and wrong, but, it's still in there to think about. And the more wild and violent, the better.

I am a woman and Ive fantasized about being kidnapped and raped kind of weirded out with myself

I often fantasize about my hott stalker raping me.

I am a woman and i love to imagine and want whoever i will be dating to kinda advance and do it... i really love sayin no .. but it is not a rape fantasy...i don't know why... maybe coz i am insecure of my body so from within i really want him to do things but i don't want to admit and say it🥺😭 also what scares me is that if i go along what do i do next... cox my brain stops workin when i kiss or my bf makes advances.. im always blank and don't know what to do..so i jus keep sayin no thinkin he will eventually do it but my bf never did.. we were in a relationship for 8yrs and he broke up with me...😭😭😭😭 im 28 now.... single and more insecure about my body... i don't think i can ever do it now... i tried datin once and the way the guy tired kissin was 🤮 then other time this guy tried takin my hands and put on top of his pants for me to feel ... all i felt was 🤮🤮 i have this perfect scenario in my mind of how it should go but men now a days are either soo horny and literally straightforward that it turns me off and kills my mood. I really struggle dating let alone get laid.. soon ima be a 30 yrs old half virgin i guess😬 i don't know why I ranted here

I'm a girl with a rape fetish I know I'm odd for this I feel disgusted with myself but i cant help wanting it.

There isn’t any disgust. Maybe you need attention in a way you can’t understand. Mine is so primal. I love the rush of watching and thinking of how and opportunity

I'm in the same boat as this guy. I hate wanting it so badly. But I do.

Same here bro but If I'm being honest I don't really feel ashamed for having it I just wanna know why I have it and if it's normal or not

Omg I have the same fetish, I don't understand it. I'm a girl with a rape fetish I don't know if that's weird.

I don’t think you’re weird. I think you’re special. I’ve now found a few girls that have said the same! I love the control. You love the lack of?

I don't think its weird. At least we find the same thing in common. Im just thankful there are women out there that understand and look for what I enjoy. I have found a way to curb my urges by finding a girl every now and then to play with and use as my needs demand.

My wife has been raped several time. She also has sex with about every man she meets. She drinks a lot and when she gets drunk men really take advantage of her. At first her infidelity bothered me but now I like it. I like to talk about her. My email is JohnSW6969@gmail.com.

Every woman I have ever seriously dated has had a rape fantasy. My wife has been raped several times and seems to enjoy telling me the details.

Since you're a male, it most likely is about control. Rape is violent and violates the victim and leaves scar that takes years to heal. That doesn't sound like what you want to do. You sound like a guy with a control fantasy. When you find a woman and tell her your fantasies, she may be open to it. But with any fantasy it should always be safe and consensual. And for you to share this with a lover you trust, you should have nothing to worry about. Especially with rape or other role playing scenarios that the boundaries are clear. So that if something gets too intense or too real that you both know when to turn it on and turn it off.

I'm19 and a girl I have a rape fantasy too iv never orgasmed because no one is ever as rough as id like

I feel what your saying girl...Im a 35yr old woman and have never had an natural orgasm from sex...I love a regular relationship but i urge for a man to just take control and slap me, choke me, call me names and just aggressively take it from me...I urge to be his little whore...Is that wrong?

Im a 16 year old girl and I also have rape fantasies, ive been chatting with this 28 y/o guy from a chat site and weve really hit it off cos me and him fit perfectly together sexually. ive known ive got a rape fetish and have done for the past 5 years for definite, maybe longer. its pretty normal to have them I think. don't feel bad about the thoughts or the fact they turn you on, the only thing to feel bad about is if you actually hurt someone. just make sure you don't find a prude girlfriend or someone who is really against anything like this and you should be able to open up to them, even if it doesn't float their boat they should accept your thoughts and feelings with respect. I hope you find a girl who is into rape too though xx

Wow!! You seem to be asking for rape.. just saying.

I am a 28 YR OLD WOMAN.. (NOT CHILD) and I have the same fantasy which is actually a fetish.. its not so much the rape part but more the rough and forceful sex. I crave it and I love it rough pull my hair bite me slap me choke me rough. After all no means yes right ;)

I agree. It is a fantasy thing. I would never agree with it in reality. I roleplay with my wife where she is forced to have sex. Or I was forced to watch her getting raped (roleplay).

Maybe I am watching too much porn. Lol.

Rape me im a guy

Well often times since I live near a military base I have noticed that several men have stared at me and have often tried to technically rape me it's not a very pleasurable thought in my mind! but maybe it's just me. But maybe ask your wife, girlfriend or maybe your friend with benefits if they have a rape fantasy and if they do? say you'd love to role play it with them.

The difference between role-playing a rape fantasy and an actual rape is the same difference between getting into a boxing ring and a street fight. Many people enjoy the former because it has rules and limitations, it's a controlled environment and you are relatively safe, few enjoy the later.