He doesn't believe me
I told a new male friend that I was a virgin, though I had been molested as a child. The therapist convinced me that I was still a virgin since I didn't have sex willingly. Many other counselors and therapist have also instilled this into my head, so I believed it.
I also told him that a male cousin of mine had taught me how to suck dick, by practicing on him. This was consensual dick sucking, because I was 15 years old back then and knew what I was doing and knew that I wanted him to teach me.
Well I fucked him and he said I was no virgin and that I had lied to him. He understands the way I learned my dick sucking skills and is not upset that it was with a cousin, but he feels that I lied about being a virgin. He also stated that my saying I was molested was and is misleading. To him, molestation means everything but vaginal or anal penetration. He feels that if you were penetrated, then you were either raped or sexually abused.
I'm so confused because he makes so much sense in what he is saying. I want to be with him and please him in every way, but he feels like I lied to him.
You are the o my person who can say whether you are or are not, he sounds like a total dick and you should completely disregard his opinion.