Friend
My wife and I were friends in college long before we started dating. While she had one boyfriend who fucked her for a year and another that fucked her for nearly two years, I was still a virgin when we started dating. After going to a movie on our first date, we went to her dorm room where we fucked. It was my first time and I was the third man to be between her long legs. I was a very happy guy and we started having sex 3 or 4 times a week.
She told me that she really liked sex and the two guys fucked her often while they were dating. I told her that I had sex with two women before her since I was embarrassed that I was still a virgin at 21 years old. She said that her having fucked two men before me shouldn't bother me since I also had sex with two others. I know that it shouldn't but sometimes it does bother me and I wonder if I should have found a girl that was a virgin for my first sexual partner.
Forty years later, my wife still believes that I had fucked two women before her. I have thought about telling her that I was a virgin when we got together but I haven't. Do you think that I should tell her or keep my secret that I was a virgin many years ago?
Yes
Why? Please explain.