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I'm starting to become more and more attached to one of the guys I'm fucking. It's always been a non issue, it was always just strictly sex. My boyfriend had brought it up a while ago, if I start seeing a guy or guys on a regular basis, that a bond might form. No matter our intention going into it, he said I might get addicted to the dopamine and serotonin. He thought that it could develop into actual feelings. At the time I assured him I was only interested in cock.
He was concerned I might catch feelings and if I did then I was supposed to talk to him so we could work it out. I had to bring it up to him last week. I think I am starting to have feelings for one of them. It's confusing. I'm glad my boyfriend had the foresight and is being objective about it. I think I might have to break up with him to be with one of my side guys.
That happens. My husband and I started swinging after we got married and before kids. We were in our mid 20s at the time.
At first it was a fun way to meet new couple. Our agreement was always swap as a couple only.
We met an older couple that were mid 50s. We swapped often but I started having sex with B on the side. Our time together became emotional and intense. Instead of having 'sex' we were making love. Sadly, we called things off.
We stopped swinging and I used the excuse I was ready to have kids with my husband.
Sex can be fun but can also create emotions too.
I guess that is the sort of thing that playing the field can bring with it. I am a religious guy even though I really like to read the stories on this disgusting website. The Bible preaches that we’re only supposed to be with one person, forever. I want to agree with everything that’s in the Bible, but this one really throws me for a loop. I don’t know how we are expected to have experienced sex with only one person and then commit to them for the rest of our lives. What if we don’t match up sexually? Then we’re just expected to suffer or have to go through counseling or both for the rest of our lives? I’m not questioning God but this is a big, big deal in my opinion.