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Is cheating ever ok?
I’m in a fantastic relationship, for all but one thing. Our sex drives don’t match now.
They did when we were younger but now, hers has dropped massively. It is almost funny the amount of different excuses she’ll find to shut down sex. It would be funny, if I wasn’t dying inside at how little I get to have sex with my wife.
I find her so beautiful, so funny, just amazing. I literally fall in love with her again everyday and I tell her. She has told me her ‘love language’ and I make sure I do that every single day without fail. I help out around the house, I work hard to provide. I buy and do spontaneous things to surprise her and keep the spark alive. I try to be romantic. I keep myself in good shape and I make sure I prioritise her over everything else (friends, hobbies, etc). When we do have sex I absolutely love going down on her and make sure she cums at least once during sex, often twice. Not sure what else to do.
So my question is, when all the effort seems so one sided. Is it ever ok to seek that satisfaction elsewhere? Quietly, discreetly, but just to satisfy that urge so I’m not left bitter and annoyed that all the effort is one sided and I’m still sat with my dick in my hand.
Hubby doesn't know it. But I use bed sharing events for cheating. Looking down and viewing that fresh hard dick before penetration. And I'm like oh yeah. I block my husband out. Fuck this guy's brain out.
Sex is an essential part of a relationship. If her drive is no longer as high as yours, talk to her. She may have reasons, or it may just be she's older and no longer has the same drive. If she doesn't have good reasons that you two can work on together, than it's excusable to find sex elsewhere.
I am glad that I am not one of these guys that didn't know that his wife had been cheating on him for years. My wife and I have always been very open and honest with each other and it was hard at first when she cheated on me I was jealous of course but once you get past all the feelings and jealousy and you realize that it's just sex I wasn't going to end my marriage over sex nothing changed between us and she always takes care of my needs first before anyone else. I use to worry about her when she went out on dates and didn't come home until the next day but we came to an agreement that she should bring the guys home and fuck them here that way we both know that she's safe. Yes I have spent many nights masterbateing in a different bedroom listing to her getting fucked but once she is finished with another guy we usually fuck like rabbits and she always tells me how much she loves me and how lucky she is to have a man like me.
Yes. I believe that you can cheat and it doesn't have to affect your home life. If you can compartmentalize it, then yes. The risk is if the other person isn't on the same page as you. If it is understood between both people(s) that no one wants to fuck up their relationship, then yes.
I think it is me and the wife seemed to a good sex life. But now I got begged for it or hint I want some kinky shit. She just pull her panties i drop my load that's it she just goes back to watching TV lazy bitch. Girls I meet at the bar want to suck my cock clean it up after I cum in them or suck me till I drop a load down there throat. It's like normal for them. If your wife ain't giving it go get some local bar .
Hookup apps have made is so much easier today.
Especially if your work requires occasional travel.
It sounds like she's found somebody else to fuck, if you ask me.
I have a dick
Yes it's perfectly OK to seek outside pussy.