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Trying to go 40 days
So, I recently made this pact with myself that I am going to go 40 days without getting off. That means no sex, no jerking off, nothing.
Yes I know that there is a movie about this - kindof where I got the idea.
Anyhow, I’m on day 12 and I feel like I’m scratching out of my skin. I’m starting to think about it way more than usual and I notice every hot girl that I’m around in detail. I’m trying hard though. Any advice from someone who has made it to day 40?
Do replacement activities like stretching (for relaxation) and guitar (to keep your fingers busy and mind busy). Grab the guitar or whatever every time you think of it. Also text people (non-sexual i.e. men) about whatever any time you think of hot women in order to alter your brain reflexes. The brain is a muscle and changes shape with training. Focus on your purpose(s) in life i.e. parent or healing from loss or whatever they are and enjoy the fact that women eventually sidetrack your thinking less and less. Approach all your pursuits with humility and discipline.
Good luck this is possible.
This is what I should do
I only made it to day 17 before I went nuts and basically fucked my wife five times the following day then she laughed and told me she knew I could never go that long without.
Keep busy