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Pssst…Wanna know a secret?
I’m a closeted married bi guy in my late 50s. My wife and I have a really great sex life and are very uninhibited. She has no idea that I even have deeply repressed homosexual desires and needs, much less that occasionally I don’t repress them and I act on them. I’ve wanted to let her in on my secret but am very afraid she would be upset and I would lose her.
Two or three times a year she travels on business. I take these windows of opportunity to indulge my desires. Finding a host for gay play is a challenge…most men are in the same boat…and I would not risk her finding out if I hosted here at home.
So I get a hotel room a few towns away where I’m anonymous. I post on Doublelist and set groundrules that may sound tame and restrictive, but they allow me to keep me and my wife healthy and disease free while satisfying my needs.
My post offers warm lubricated handjobs or condom blowjobs or condom anal. Mostly I’m submissive and receive but I do enjoy burying my cock in a tight asshole now and then.
The first time I did this I thought my rules would be too limiting and off-putting and I’d get few responses. But it was the opposite. Even though lots of guys were not interested if I would not bend the rules (many beg and whine in their emails) there was a whole other group that ventured out precisely because they valued my safe approach. It was a whole untapped market, so to speak, guys that wanted to play but feared STDs for themself or their wife.
The most number of guys I ever serviced from check-in to checkout the next morning was 17…and 4 an hour at one point. I had guys heading to or from work on all shifts, guys running errands, truckers, businessmen, you name it. Since I’m only good to cum once in that time frame I save my topping til just before checkout. Everything else is me servicing cock in every safe way imaginable as well as using toys and lube to satisfy anal needs.
Wife is older than me and approaching retirement, so this will end since she won’t travel on business any more. But it’s been a hell of a ride…sometimes literally. And now I’ve shared my little secret, which is exciting and gave me a hardon to do.
Personally I don't see anything wrong with a man being bisexual I knew that my husband was bisexual before we were married but on the other hand I think that it's wrong to go behind your wife's back and have sex with other men that's just cheating and how would you feel if she was fucking other men behind your back. When me and my husband got married we agreed to having an open marriage and it's worked out for us so far. He likes to be very submissive with other men wearing panties and thigh high stockings everyone has their own kinks that they enjoy and you only live once so have fun with it while you can.
OP here - I appreciate the cheating opinion but your analogy was wrong. If my wife cheated with a guy I’d be upset. But with the same sex (as I’m doing) I’d be excited and supportive since I don’t have the equipment or the feminine mind and could never satisfy that need, just as she could never satisfy my same sex need. But I do get your point.
I go to a bathhouse twice a week to get my ass filled before coming home to my wife. She has no idea
Wish I could eat you ass out afterwards. So Yummy!
Lesbian love is the best.
Never done that much but on a trip soon to Texas soon and I'm taking my panties with me! Hope to fine 1 or 2 to play with. Not 17, I'd get lock jaw!
My advice, bring everthing you need to indulge your fantasies. Early in my bisexuality I traveled and hoped to hook up but didn’t. I learned that having panties, thigh highs, a dildo and lube went a long way.
Very hot, have fun! And I’d bring panties too!! My wife is a BBW, so they fit me, LOL!!
Wife's hell, I have my own! She buys them for me also!
You’re a lucky man!! I have to be sneaky about it 😢😢
Very hot!! I’m 52, MWM and closeted also. My BBW wife stopped giving me her pussy a couple years back, so that sent my sex drive into orbit! I met another married guy a couple times over this past summer, and we really enjoyed each other! I hope to be able to suck a few more cocks in the coming year, I just love to be able to pleasure another man that way!!!
Where do you live?
New Hampshire. Why?