I’m hungry for men sexually and a bit more

I’m a retired bi man and love having sex with women and men with equal enjoyment and gusto. I have my entire life. While sex with women is fun, exciting, erotic and satisfying, it also comes with a very natural and enjoyable feeling, an emotional aspect….love and similar romantic feelings, and connection and attachment. I’m a one-woman man.

With men it’s sexual. I have no interest in living with a man, or dating one or falling in love. I couldn’t, I’m not wired that way. And I’ve made it a rule to only have sex with those who feel the same in order to avoid drama and emotional strings. I communicate that up front and make sure we’re on the same page. With men, I can and do have many partners, not all at once but days apart. I currently have four male partners.

However, lately I’ve discovered with some of my male partners an exciting thrill from a very controlled sort of sex with them that I’ll call “romantic role play”. Within the confines of a bedroom and with a mutually agreed upon policy of “what happens in bed stays in bed”, we are free to be romantic, to enjoy sensual kissing and the intimacy of lovemaking. And the thrill and excitement is heightened by the understanding that we are enjoying a sort of mindless no strings form of sex. It’s a way to let go and explore and enjoy fantasies without attachment.

When we make love, eye to eye, hands interlocked, kissing, one breathlessly telling the other “make love to my pussy, cum in it, make me feel you deep in me” it’s wildly erotic. After cumming we lay as lovers, kissing, whispering, allowing an exchange of intimacy that we both acknowledge a need to release. Then it’s up, dressed and happily back to reality and unemotional attachment. It’s a very deep and satisfying release. I’m very happy to have let down my guard and opened myself to this experience.

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