I’ve been married for 15 years. We only have sex like once a month at most. I suck dick (and get sucked) on the side. A lot of dick.
For the past 5 years, I’ve had a side dude. Two actually. One for 3 years until he moved and one for currently 2 years. We suck each other off 2-3 times a week and full on sex once or twice a week. I am not ashamed and I don’t feel guilty. I absolutely love sucking dick and having mine sucked by a guy.
I've become obsessed with having sex with a guy or tranny. I have had many opportunities to be with women but have zero interest.
Nothing wrong with that a lot of married guys turn to other guys for sex after their wives stop wanting sex. It's a lot easier than finding another woman and you don't have all the drama from a woman. I have been sucking cock and getting ass fucked for 10 years now since my wife stopped having any kind of sex. Kinda wish I had started before then. I love having a cock in my mouth and swallowing cum guys know what other guys want.
I got divorced years ago and have been celibate because I have been waiting to fuck a guy or a shemale. Pussy doesn't do it for me anymore.
I was in the same boat. I eventually divorced my nearly frigid wife, but until I did I had a revolving door of suck/fuck buddies. I felt guilt initially but then realized I always made sure to satisfy every sexual need or fetish my wife had, but she could not have cared less about my needs. I let her know clearly I enjoy anal pleasure but she couldn’t spare a finger or a toy for me. Actually called me a pervert. So I adopted a new motto of sorts. No guilt, no shame, no embarrassment, no apology. I also found that although I was with something like 40 guys, it wasn’t enough to simply play with the same one repeatedly. The thrill and excitement and risk and deep satisfaction of chasing, catching and having new cock was just too good.