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It wasn't physically cheating
You can see in the title that there's self-doubt, right? I'm writing this knowing that, while I did not physically cheat on my wife, I definitely cheated on my wife. Am I proud? No. Do I regret it? Kinda. Will I break up with my wife? Also no.
Here's what happened...
Every afternoon, for a few consecutive weeks, when the mask restrictions finally eased, I walked into the bar next to my office for a few beers. The bartender (most days) was this cute, bubbly early 20s chick named Katie. Katie was flirty, sexy, knew it, and made her money as a bartender because she knew it.
As she and I got more familiar daily, my moral compass slowly started to drift off course from north. The flirting became mutual. There was even interest. I knew I was going into something that I would not get out of, and I was powerless.
After a few weeks, it was clear that we both wanted each other. We were even texting. Sexting even. It was problematic to put it mildly.
Finally, by the grace of God, or whatever deity, I pulled my head out of my ass and put a stop to it.
I don't know if I was scared or if I finally did have a "come-to-Jesus" moment but, either way, I know I took it too far and can only learn from this situation going forward.
Good for you. You make a decision.
It is refreshing to read a “desire confession” / “almost cheating confession” didn’t end with fucking and sucking and anal and and and
But what's the point of an "almost cheating" confession on this website?
HA! You got duped!
I've owned a bar for 30 years and I've seen it all.
Female bartenders are like strippers. They know how to get inside your head and take all the money you have. They have no shame in taking your kids college fund.
Waitresses and Bartenders are the two professions that get hit on the most. These girls hear it all day long and from all kinds of people. The good one's that are looking for easy $ will flirt and act extra interested.
The success rate of a guy hitting on a waitress, getting her number, a date and something serious is one million to one!
She gave you her number and sexted with you just to get you to come back every night and drop a $50 to $100 tip in her jar. Trust me. She had no intension of doing all those things her sexts said.
Should've fucked. Then, put it to a stop.
Can you post her pictures? Love looking at a hot chick!
Good for you. Very good for you!
You will hope your wife does the same when she is sorely tempted some day!
Being real here she will fuck some guy with a huge cock for a year then realize she only wants her shrimp dick husband after he's broken her beyond repair