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Sexy Trip with Wife -
In early summer 2022 my conservative wife of 20 years and I will go going to a city known for lots of fun and also some adult entertainment. There is an event she’s always wanted to attend and the timing is right so I surprised her. It’s not cheap but it will be fun and I’m happy to do it. Will plan the days events, hit the spa, do some shopping (she loves to shop), go out to eat, hit some clubs, see the sights, etc
However, another reason for me organizing this trip is because I’ve been wanting to confess my sexual fantasies to her and expand our horizons. There is a lot of adult themed entertainment nearby and the setting seems appropriate.
My wife…(sigh) she’s a good person and a good sport, sexually, but defaults to prudishness. I remember her once telling me she didn’t like the phrase “lover” when describing each other and saying she thought people who moan really loud sound like “animals”. 15 years later and she can orgasm 15-20 times a session and moaned like crazy when I used a 7 inch wonderfully thick dildo on her and sucked her tits like a hungry mad man. Dear heavens, that was fun. Only took a 3 years of on again off again persuading to get her to try it.
Anyway, I’m always the one pushing the envelope and wanting to try new things. It’s hit or miss…and lately it been miss. So hoping this trip recharges the batteries. Because mine are near depleted.
She’s never been into porn. It’s not something I want as a crutch, and I don’t want or need hard core gang and clown sex, ok but I’d like it as an occasional appetizer. I plan to once again try to introduce it to her, go to an adult store (many not too far from our resort), order some pay per view now that we are away from kids and the constraints of home life, and try to entice her.
I’ve already broached the topic of reading a sexually explicit novel/romance together and she is (surprisingly) ok with that, so that’s a positive development. But I’m laying the groundwork now (if a dirty novel, why not a dirty movie?). Love the idea of my reluctant wife getting wet from erotica.
I also want to watch her get a massage, or maybe we do a couples massage, so I found an attractive male masseuse and I plan to try to get her to agree to it. She moans nicely when I give her a non-erotic back massage and I’m intrigued whether she would moan aloud from the touch of another man’s strong hands. If couples massage, I’m going to hire some hot babe to do me.
Now I told her I only want a woman touching me for massage (I was curious about her reaction to me saying that, but she seemed non-plussed). I already suggested her getting a male masseuse during the trip and she said (in a huff) she didn’t want a guy touching her. To this I say bullshit. I’ve heard her talk with her friends about men giving her foot massages during pedis and no objection. In fact, she says how wonderful it feels. So going to try again and insist, see if I can persuade her.
Another fetish is the idea of watching her get hypnotized and having the chance to get in her head, hear her secret fantasies and such, so I’ve already contacted a professional about that. Broaching that topic with her might be hard, we will see how playful she is and if she’s willing. I think about a 30-40 percent chance of success.
Another fantasy is just generally other men desiring (and flirting) with her, so I plan to take her to some nightclubs and spring for a glam makeover beforehand. Get her really dolled up. She’s an attractive woman and I do notice men looking at her but she doesn’t always spend a lot of time on glamming, so that will be fun to watch her ooze sex appeal. I’ve already made the appointment and told her…she’s looking forward to the makeover. Will have some hot and heavy sex afterwards, that will be fun.
I also want to confess my sexual fantasies to her. Really come clean: 3 way sex (no, we don’t have to actually do it but I want her know it gives me pleasure to think about her pleasuring other men and being pleasured); another is her watching me jerking off to a Penthouse mag, she has to witness my lust, things like that. Stuff I’ve felt for years.
So….here comes the naughty. I have always wanted to go to a strip club, get a lap dance. I went once in my 20s. I was SO tempted to get a dance, my heart felt like it was going to pound right out of my chest, but I chickened out at the last minute. If my wife is there, it wouldn’t have to be full contact grind, I’d just want to be in the midst of all that sex and lust and have her there with me. But that is a long shot. 5 percent chance she would agree to it. Hell, I’d go to a male strip club if she were interested but fact is, asking her to go is risky, she might get upset.
Now…and this is where is gets deliciously bad, the other option is I go myself. Arrange a spa treatment for her and I spend my time at the strip club. Or I tell her I’m going for a two hour workout and simply head over to get my lap dance. I’ve already researched locations. Got a membership to strip club review site. Have a contact for a limo service to get me there and back. One of the potential clubs is high end, expensive, 100 plus babes to chose from, lots of model type quality.
But I’m telling you right now, if I go by myself it’s going to be fucking debauchery. I’ll have $500 for 30 min VIP treatment half hour grind and find a gal who will let me feel and suck her luscious tits. Some strippers are good with that, others aren’t—just have to find the right gal. And I will. The other option is can go to a local joint known for pretty whores who literally give handjobs in the rooms. A part of me relishes the idea of some fucking whore looking me right in there eye and talking dirty to me while stroking me dick and I watch myself erupting.
Never done anything like this. Fact is, if my wife and I can have fun together and I feel like she’s being playfully sexual and open to some of the above, then I won’t feel the need to go to a strip club. Seriously, I won’t. But if it’s business as usual, or I get the consistent hand in the face, shot down on all fronts or if she’s preoccupied with mommy-world, or her work world…Well, if that’s the case I’m totally laying the groundwork for this husband to either suck some supermodels tits or get my dick stroked by some pretty whore until I moan and get my messy lust out.
Mid 40s in the 90's a buddy Bob and I -- a little bored fucking wives 15 years -- agreed to hit on each other's hot wife. I thought I pulled a fast one, My Bible Club Sally he'll never fuck. I knew his wife Jill had a brief fling, and she likes me -- loves dancing with me. Bob has 2 left feet. Sally's only vise is she likes to hang out at our pool naked. Says she hates white , strap mark cleavage poking out of her summer dresses. Monkey see, monkey do -- Bob, Jill and I skinny dip too.
Sally privately jokes about Bob "Hung like a horse -- wow-- lucky Jill" she kids. In no time Jill is my side fuck. I ask her to go for a ride. She says why not just get a room. Then one night I'm up at 3 AM -- no Sally. I check the house. from the the 2nd deck is see naked Sally, on her knees, giving Bob a blowjob. The flings last about 3 years -- Everyone acts like there is no flings. To this day we never talk about it. Sally was like a wild whore when was she fucking Bob.
PS Bob and Jill split.
Bro it is January 2022 right now summer of 2022 isn't for another 4 me months