Amie and Kat were roommates in college and remained friends.
Amie invites Kat stays with us in the summer because we live 30 minutes from the beach and Kat lives in CT.
When Kat visits she complains about everything, our house, food we cook, the guest bed and our neighborhood. She picks fights with the our neighbors and it takes us months to reestablish piece after her ass is gone! I’ve always been shocked the two are friends because Amie’s the opposite. She was raised by strict religious parents, quiet, can’t say no to anyone, a secretary for a lawyer, takes time doing her hair and makeup before she goes anywhere. She loves fashion and has two closets full of dresses and shoes. She even wears dresses around the house and visits the spa once a week. Her job requires her to look professional. To stay in shape, she does yoga, we’re both vegan and road bike 30 to 50 miles on the weekends.
You’d never know by looking at her disgusting ass but Kat says she’s F**ng allergic to everything OMG her F&*king food allergies. She’s morbidly obese, shaved head, sleeve tats, face piercings, over 250lb, huge ankles and toe nails are yellow with fungus! I knew Kat was bi but this time she informed us she 100% lesbian.
This year Kat got on my last nerve. I told her to leave and never come back. She got violent and started throwing things. I thought we were going to have to call the police. During her rage, she said she’s not keeping it secret any more and said her and Amie dated and had sex all the time. I brushed it off as BS, told Kat I don’t believe anything she’s f**ing saying and to get the hell out of our lives and don’t come back. She packed her s**t and got an Uber. I was glad she was gone.
That night, Amie and I finished having sex and told me she wanted to explain what Kat said.
Ok. I’m not naive, I knew in college Amie made out her sorority sisters but as far as I knew that’s as far as it went. I’d like to add, her sorority sister are HOT and I wished I was there when it went down.
I wasn’t prepared for the bombshell. She apologized I had to find out this way but she used to be a LUG (lesbian until graduation) but now a hasbian. Her and Kat dated and slept together while roommates.
She said, ‘ask me anything’.
How many guys have you really been with? Originally I was told 3 but it’s actually 14. Three of the guys were bi.
How many girls beyond ‘making out’? 6 All of them were Kat’s friends. No sorority sisters.
Have you and Kat had sex after we got married? Yes
Amie admitted while in college she liked making out with ‘lipstick Lesbians’ but preferred sex with a ‘butch’.
btw: I had to google this stuff.
Are you still attracted to Kat? Yes! To make matters worse, she asked if I’d be ok if she still hooked up with Kat but not at our house because she might actually be a bi-sexual and wanted me to respect that. If I’m ok, she’d like to spend a few weekends per year with Kat. She assured me things will be fine and promised to reward me and make ‘it’ll be worth it’. She’s giving me plenty of time to think about it. Also, she begged me to keep this from her parents. It would be bad if they found out.
I’m in shock and confused at what to do. Amie said she doesn’t want a divorce. She’s not into anyone else, just Kat. She just wants me to respect her, her body and what she wants which is occasional time with Kat.
I’m considering because Amie and I have a great marriage and she promised I wouldn’t get around Kat again.
To pre-answer comments. NO! I don’t want a three way with Kat! I think she’s disgusting.