How do we start an open relationship?

My wife and I have been married for over 22 years and we have be discussing the possibility of opening our relationship and start having sex with other people. Please give us some suggestions about how you got started in the lifestyle and is it working for you?

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  • It's not for everybody, but it sounds like you are in a solid relationship. My husband and I talked about it after being married 12 years, and we've been careful about it. We don't consider ourselves swingers at all, but I've had sex with one of his male friends, and my husband has had sex with one of my female friends. We have rules, mainly that we do it together. Decide on the rules, and see where it goes.

  • Statistics say open relationships don’t work. It’s better to keep it fantasy.

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