How do we start an open relationship?

I could write a book about it. I have done it with every serious long term girlfriend I've had. 4 different girls 4 different relationships 4 very very different backgrounds.

Before you try that, try a 3somes with someone that is not a friend or a coworker. Set some rules, be prepared for someone to say no. We are in our 50s and had over 25 3some in the last 10 years. This is the hard part of it. (looking for Mr. or Miss right) When in the right mood and in right time we go out of town and spend time at high end places for the weekend and see if we can find a hook up for the night. Male or female, we look for someone with good hummer, clean, and easy to talk too. Water parks are a great place to find a woman and my wife got a good slow fucking at a garage sale after hours, most men will never turn you down. It's not that easy so just talk about it first. I do know of people that had open relationship; it never works out in the long run. We even spent a day at a flea market and later that night at out room we invited one of the venders in for a drink. (male) all 3 of us hit it off at first sight. take your time and be carful

It's not for everybody, but it sounds like you are in a solid relationship. My husband and I talked about it after being married 12 years, and we've been careful about it. We don't consider ourselves swingers at all, but I've had sex with one of his male friends, and my husband has had sex with one of my female friends. We have rules, mainly that we do it together. Decide on the rules, and see where it goes.

Statistics say open relationships don’t work. It’s better to keep it fantasy.