Good Dad or Bad Dad?
I have a 14 year old son and we recently updated phones for our kids, so I needed to wipe out the old ones. He has followed in our footsteps regarding social media and hasn't had any interaction with it till recently when he joined a school team, they communicate through social media apps so we set him up with all the apps to keep him informed. I noticed while cleaning up the phones that he is kinda far behind his peers in sexual knowledge as he didn't join in the conversations much and his google search history was LOADED with sexual inquiries, but he couldn't get answers due to all the filters and parental controls that are in place (moms idea). I felt bad so I downloaded a few porn videos and hid them on his phone in a secure location. I let him know that I saw his history in his phone and asked if he had any questions to feel free to ask me but he was too embarrassed to ask. I winked at him and told him to look in this folder to find the answers he was looking for and to let me know when he's tired of those videos and I'll get him some new ones. Did I do the right thing or the wrong thing? I'm thinking then right thing.