This is 100% true. I had a kinky girlfriend that enjoyed being dominated. A few years later when I was married to someone else, I decided that I wanted to be dominated in bed. Long story short, my favorite sex activity became being tied to the bed spreadeagle face down for a nice belt spanking. After my wife decided that I'd had enough, she'd release me and I would be retied this time lying on my back. I would usually be blindfolded and she would give me slow oral sex until I thought I'd explode. I loved every minute of it.