Need advice

I have had 3 very serious long term relationships before my current one. I've spent years navigating this lifestyle, and pulled it off to some extent with all of them. It's got progressively better and more advanced each time. But there has been so many mistakes made, hurdles to get over, and so many nightmare situations I had to figure out how to get past if I wanted it to work in a real way. And finally my current girlfriend and I now enjoy ourselves as a loving functioning couple that lives the lifestyle in a real way and not just as weekend warriors. I could and should write a book. I roll my eyes at the comments people left on your post. It's ridiculous.

Take her out to a club to go dancing. Did that to my wife and she dressed quite attractive and wore a short skirt and a loose top and once inside the club after three drinks she was dancing with any one that came up and asked her. Then it happened a big tall black asked her to dance and she did. All thru the song I constantly lost sight of her and the man many times and just before the song ended he had his hands right on her ass holding her up off the floor tight against him and I saw her give him a big lasting kiss right on his lips. They walked back to the table hand in hand and she scooted in and he sat besides her with his hand on her thigh, couldn't see it but it was obvious.
I had to go to relieve myself and when I returned they were no where to be seen.
I couldn't find her any where so I went home fuming.
Three days later she shows up looking like she's been drug thru hell. Didn't say a word to me just went in showered and went to bed nude.
Two days she slept for most of the time finally she opened up to me and told me everything that happened. he took her home and mad wild love to her cumming in her around five times then four other came in and for the entire time they all five took her over and over till one finally took her home and dropped her off in the street half naked.

Dude she was raped and held captive as a sex slave. You should have killed the mf'er. This needs to be reported. If not just go fire bomb the niggers house.

Wish my partner had this fantasy
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My fantasy as well, my wife and I talk about it quite a bit during sex. I tell her that I want someone with a fat 10" cock to fill her full of cum so I can fuck her after. She hasnt said no...

Suggest her and another woman

Also -- be sure to let her know that you're also interested in sucking the guy's cock to get him nice and hard for her. And tell how how hot it will be for her to watch you sucking another man's cock. Then -- do it.

Try talking dirty to her while fucking her. Tell her do you like sucking dick ? Do you like getting fucked? Then, do you want to suck dick while I fuck you ? Stick your finger in her mouth when fucking her from behind. Get het on all fours sucking your dick while you finger fuck her clit and pussy hard. Go from there.

You're not alone in your fantasy. I'm also married and would LOVE watching my wife with another man or two men or even a group of men. No desire to participate, just watch. I have to give you a ton of credit for even bringing the subject up with her--good for you, that took guts. Now you just have to "close the sale." Here's what I'd do. The next time you bring it up and she "laughs it off" as usual, ask her if there are any guys the two of you both know that she finds ATTRACTIVE. Do NOT ask her if there are any guys the two of you both know that she WOULD HAVE SEX WITH. Those are two different questions. She's bound to admit to one or two guys...none of us are blind, right? Then, once she coughs up a name (or two, or three, or whatever), tell her that you think it would be absolutely awesome if she went to bed with him. Give her permission. Tell her that, if she likes, you could even make the arrangements. That it would only strengthen your marriage. Reassure her how much you love her and how this would really go a long way towards taking your sex lives to a whole new level. Sounds like she just might go for it. PLEASE REPORT BACK.

Man that's great advice and kind of made me hard just imaging it thanks

This is also a huge turn on for me as well. I love to watch another mans cock thrust in and out of my wife's pussy and even more so when I see him start contracting and I know he's shooting a cum load inside of my wife's married pussy. Now she fucks a new man for me about once a month.

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