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I need some advice
I feel really unfulfilled in my sex life because I am too scared to tell my sex partners what I really want. To the guys reading this, if a women asked you to hit her with a closed fist during sex, would that put you off? Being punched to the point of bruising and bleeding has always been a big desire of mine and I don't know if I will ever be able to fully enjoy sex until it happens.
Bruises are incontrovertible evidence. Verbal agreements are not. That's potential jail time for your man, young lady. Even if you don't file charges, someone else (friend, family member, teacher, co-worker) could bring in the cops. No guy with half a brain would do as you ask, for all the reasons the other commenters mention.
I wouldn't do it. Had one woman who wanted me to choke her during sex..Not lightly, but, real, pass-out, thumbs on her throat choke, and I declined. Never know what the woman will say later, or, if mid-act, change her mind. i doubt most men would go for hitting a woman to the point of bruising and bleeding.
I don't think most guys would want to do that. I am sorry about that for you. I fear that if you find someone willing to beat you during sex, he will probably be the sort of person who doesn't care anything about women. He may very well not give a damn if he takes it too far.
Even if you meet someone who cares about you and wants to help you fulfill this fantasy of yours, it may still result in you being hurt. It is difficult to judge just how hard to strike someone and avoid doing real damage.
Also, almost any guy will be hesitant to help you fulfill this fantasy for another reason. Sorry to say this but, too often we hear of girls who change their minds about having sex afterward and cry rape. Perhaps they just got mad at the guy or something. If a guy did beat you enough to give you bruises or draw blood, it would be very hard to convince a police officer later on that you actually wanted him to do that to you.
But that would not be my first objection; I just don't want to actually hurt someone during sex.
Your best bet is to find someone in the B&D scene, someone very experienced and skilled in delivering pain safely.
Yea I think most guys would find that strange. I would look into getting into a BDSM community. Find a partner who would be willing to do this for you and make sure they understand your boundaries. Hell, you sound hot. I'd gladly smack you around with my cock in your little cunt.
Its called angry fucking... happens a lot. got my ex close to bleeding once... big turn on.
Yup, that would turn me off. That's exactly what I wouldn't want to happen, particularly in a sexual encounter, honestly. I'm sure there are people out there who'd be in to this, but I doubt there'd be many. You're going to need a very understanding partner for this kind of thing, and set some very distinct boundaries / keywords to keep from going overboard & ending up in the hospital and him to the slammer for sexual abuse, consensual or not. They might release him when you recover & tell them it's all your idea & you were fine with it, but... that's some bat crazy sexual fantasies you have there. Good luck with that.