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I want to ask my friend for sex without it offending her
Is it wrong to ask a woman friend for sex? I would love to be in a relationship with her. She's separated and saving money for divorce, it's taking a while. Does this mean she's not really available for sex or may not be comfortable about sex at this time? Would it be offensive to ask her if she'd like to have sex with me anyway? I don't want to take a chance on devalueing our friendship over sex, but there isn't a woman in the world I'd rather be with.This is a truthful honest question, I'm looking for truthful honest opinons.
Speaking from experience here..Treat her well, and gradually increase the non-friendship, more like a date things you do with her. Focus on her interests, talk about anything but the usual, friend conversation. Open up a little to her, too.
I had a beautiful, sweet, and sexy female business partner like that..Very close friends, to the point most people thought we were together anyway. She was, as they say, my "work wife". We looked like a couple, acted like it, and were great together...But, until I kicked things up a notch, we'd never had sex.
One of the best nights was on the way back from a business function. We stopped off to eat at a very nice, upscale place at a casino. We were already dressed nicely, and looked the part. Talked, interacted, laughed...And not once mentioned work or business. Was our first, real "date night". I even danced with her in the aisle, her long, black dress (which I bought her the previous week when we were making stops and found a women's shop) flowing at her legs.. Her long, black hair moving left and right.. Was amazing, and we both felt "it".
After that, while we continued our usual working relationship, I started treating her "better", doing things or lunches I didn't like but she did, addressing her by her full first name instead of shortened or nickname..Showing her what she meant to me. And that, all these people who thought we were together anyway, probably saw something..The truth of what should be.
We'd have sex for months, almost a year, before others, who weren't exactly fans of me, got in the way and put things into her head. Shame, too..Because we honestly were on track for a long-term US.
Makes plans to take her somewhere nice for a day an evening and just see how's things turn out, take hold of her hand and just walk around she will begin to trust you if you don't rush her. Remember she is going through a hard time whether she is showing it or not all the looking for some comfort company. Steadily you will win her heart don't rush her if you want to have her for a long time. All the best
Take her for a date and take her hand and put it on your cock and you will soon know if she is on for a good fucking .
One doesn't simply ask for sex. Take her on a date, or a walk, or a drive in a cabrio in the sun. If it's fun, it might get to that point. You know that don't you.
Take her on a date? Show worth that way no devaluation happens