How do I tell my bf about my fetishes?

My bf and I are both 27. He was raised in a large city and I lived in a rural area. 127 kids in my graduating class. I’m college I was exposed to a new, larger and exciting world filled with many opportunities to experience life. When I was a freshman I dated a senior for a few months. He was very experienced at life in many ways that were completely foreign to me. One of them was sex and how it should be fun and exciting and loving and passionate. After a month he tied me up and has his way with me. Of course he asked first. I loved it. We did other things I enjoyed as well. I realized after we broke up o missed our sexual adventures. It took me a while to fully understand what I wanted but when I did I knew that’s what I wanted. I love kinky sex. I love romantic sex. I love sex.

Now that I have been with my bf for 6 months I want to tell him about all my fetishes I've fine and want to do, but I’m afraid of what he will say. What will he say if I tell him I want him to rape me? Or I want to find another woman to join us in bed? Or that I want to have a man fuck me while he watches.

I have been honest with him about my past. I have not told him all the details or every experience I’ve had but I have been honest with him. He has not really judged me so I feel comfortable talking to him but I am afraid if I tell him every fetish or kink I have he will be freaked out. I know he loves me because one night he asked early in our relationship after a night of drinking and getting high my wildest sexual experience. Uninhabited by the drinks and weed I told him. At 24 my then bf and I went to Vegas for his 28th birthday and (I cannot believe I am writing this) I hired an escort for us. He had a very special fantasy. You see he wanted us to have a threesome with a “shemale”. I apologize if that word is not the right term. It was the wildest by far sexual experience I’ve had.

Any thoughts on how I can tell him about my fetishes?

By Anonymous

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