Lost virginity to friend's dad
I lost my virginity when I was 14 years old. I had sex with my neighbor's father who at the time was married and probably in his late 30s. I know he could have gotten in serious problems but I never thought about accusing him because I never felt that he forced me, to be honest I thought I was in love and yes he was always looking for the opportunity to have sex with me but I wanted to do it too.
My friend knew I was having sex with his father, she never actually said it, but many times she would leave us alone in her room when her father came in. I wouldnt doubt that they had an agreement.
We had sex on top of her bed, on the floor or from behind against her desk. Sometimes he would make love to me in a tender loving way, but other times he would fuck me rough too. I always liked it, even when he was rough with me and he would do things like forcing me to the floor and cum over my face or in my mouth. Those were strong experiences but I felt like I was learning to be dirty with a man in bed and that made me feel like a woman.
We had sex probably for 4 or 5 months, I used to go very often to their house so probably he fucked me around 30 or 40 times. Everything I learned of sex was probably from him, I fell in love with him and I wanted to please him sexually so you can imagine the things I let him do to me while having sex. Im sure he had the time of his life being nasty with a 14 year old girl.
I dont have any traumatic memories from being his sex toy or having sex with him so many times thats why I never thought about accusing him. If Im completely honest if I would see him today and the circumstances were right I would let him fuck me again and remember those good old times.
This is why I think most of the outrage is fake. Most of us know what we were doing or wished we were doing back then. I do understand that the chances at manipulation are higher, but I think most guys and gals will just move forward with a good, secret memory. I've talked with women that have had experiences with grown men young and they spoke fondly of the experience. Even some of the one's that come out and publicly say they were "abused" are only saying it for attention. Again, abuse does happen, but often when you let the women talk long enough in interviews and podcasts, you can tell that they were willing participants and they're just using the story because victimhood sells. One of my female family members got an adult's face plastered on the news and in jail when she was 15, but if you asked her to this day, her only regret was that it turned into a big mess. I was pretty much just another d**k on the body count list of the young girls I had.
My GF's stepdad was a predator and a groomer, and he was so slick about it that you'd even guess, as he was having sex with his stepdaughter and me at the same time, we were both 14 when it started. He was very clever as I never thought that he was having sex with her, I thought that I was his special girl.
For two years I did anything that he wanted, Then I started dating a boy in my class and he still had a hold on me that I'd still sneak off and have sex with him.
I to had sex with my GF dad for she and I both use to tease him to no end and one day she wasn't home but he was and he did it. He took my cherry and it hurt like hell and a month later he did it again but this time it didn't hurt it felt good and I loved it.
This went on about once a week for several months then his daughter walked in on us just as he filled my puss with his cum and Linda screamed out dad what are you doing and ran to her room and slammed the door and Ron her dad continued to fuck me and said for me not to worry as he bent down and kissed me again and continued to fuck me driving me to another orgasm.
Why are you so obsessed with the name Ron/Ronnie?
Weird hey. You know so many people get hung up about being abused and in their eyes you were abused. Kind of nice to hear your not beating your self up and depressed.
I often sort of feel guilty that I don't want to report the older guy I had sex with a few times in high school I know he was just using me for sex and some times he forced me. He paid me maney. He also was always there to listen to me.
There is something to be said for learning sex from an older person, someone who can teach you, and who you can trust.
Although, he knew he could not be anything more than your occasional lover, and never your husband or boyfriend. I am glad he didn't break your heart.
Why did the sex stop? Did you move away? Did he?
Did you lick his butthole