I need a freak in the bedroom

I’ve been searching for a woman like you for so long. Seriously. I’m in. I’d absolutely love to reach and hear more about you.

In answer to your question: Can a man be both sexually aggressive and a loving nurturer?

Yes. It takes the right partner and honest communication in the beginning. This is exactly the type of relationship I want and need.

I am in love with you

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Yeah i know the natural hard cave man style sex your talking about would love to find a woman who would just bend over and take it from her man because she knew she was wanted and desired

Hey you well you should look at the bdsm chatrooms, it has lots of info about being a sub you should find a munch meeting in your area everyone goes in norm clothes and chats about that kind of stuff, I don't have any in my area and don't drive so I don't have that luxery good luck

I'm not interested in becoming a sub, to be honest; it's more about being in a real, mutually fulfilling relationship with someone who knows how to take control in the bedroom.
Plus, I can't say I'm into whips and chains. I like it raw and natural.

My wife to be was emotionally and sexually abused all during her life, as well as neglected. The only way she got away was when her dad, her abuser, had a stroke and had to leave the home for a nursing home. She moved in with her cousins. We started a relationship, but I had to encourage her and compliment her on everything because she had never ever thought of herself as anything but a failure and a curse. Yet Angelica had a very beautiful demeanor, but very frail emotionally and very skiddish. We talked a lot, I sat with her, looked into her eyes, held her hand and tried to make sure she knew how special she was to me and how beautiful she was, and made her the center of attention. However, after we got married, she told me that she wanted me to lead in the bedroom. Whenever we had sex, I had to tell her what I wanted, I never threatened her, and she would graciously comply. She said she felt like she owed me my pleasure because I had taken her away from a bad home. She said she was happy to because I had treated her like a woman, like the person she wanted to believe she could be, but had no self confidence. So I took the lead and she was happy that way. However, over time I convinced her to start asking for what she wanted, but because she had never been able to ask for anything in her life, she didn't know how. She did though, and she felt so confident in our relationship that she did start asking for things, even asked me to do certain things for her sexually, but I always gave her what she asked. Even though she remains somewhat submissive, I think she always will be, she hangs on my decisions in everything, even though I ask her for her opinion and her feedback. I love her and I'm sad because of the way this beautiful creature has had to live as a child. I've tried to raise her up, encourage her, protect her, provide for her, and love her so she can feel secure, and tell her that not everyone in the world is a monster. She has come along way.l