I dont like giving oral sex
I dont like to lick a woman's pussy, being an heterosexual man I have given oral sex many times in my life but Im aware that I only did it out of courtesy because my partner at the time would suck my cock too. I mean Im married and if my wife asks me tonight to give her oral sure I will do it, Im not discussion the fact of doing or not doing it, I certainly give and receive oral.
What Im refering to is I hear MANY times guys talking about or offering to give oral to a woman just because of the pleasure of doing it, I dont understand that because as I said I dont think there is any direct pleasure in licking a pussy, its an associated pleasure and thats fine but it feels like many guys have forgotten about the association part of it and they feel like there is a direct pleasure in it when there isnt, it could be that you like to feel how hot the woman gets by giving her oral, sure I dont doubt that, but thats not "direct" pleasure
I mean its almost sure that by giving oral sex to a woman shes going to get so hot that she will want to get fucked right after, if thats your plan sure, go for it, if I would want to fuck a woman so bad Id sure do the same, but sometimes I hear men talking about giving oral to a woman as if they find pleasure in it by itself, I just dont get that, we dont obtain pleasure by just "licking" things, you will get the direct pleasure by fucking the woman, but in my opinion some guys just forgot about the association part completely.
What do you think?
If it worked the way you say it does, then you wouldn't like to touch boobs either.
As a woman, I'd rather my man "play" with my breasts and nipples. I don't particularly like having him go down on me like that. I'd rather he finger me instead, while he's sucking on my nipples. That will get me turned on the quickest and begging for him to be inside of me.
I love the taste of my wifes pussy. It really tastes sweat, I dont know if she eats too much sugar , or what, but I love eating her out. I love the way if feels on my lips and tongue, like the way people enjoy kissing each other on the lips, it feels good, to me anyway. That said, I have gone down on some nasty tasting snatch over the years, and I didn't enjoy that.
Glad to hear you love your wife and enjoy her; keep her busy and stay faithful.
Okay. You're right. It's associated pleasure. But call it what you will, it's still pleasure and that's enjoyable. Sometimes you can over think something to a point that it makes you dislike it. Myself, I love the feeling it gives me when I'm eating a woman and she gets driven crazy. The feeling of controlling her so intensely that she loses it completely. Watching and listening to her beg for me to put it in, sends chills down my back. Direct or indirect it's a pleasure I'm receiving and loving it.
However there was one woman I ate that her pussy had a bad smell. And I don't mean just a little bad. That was just unpleasant. So a tip for BOTH sexes. Clean up before letting anyone down there.
Oh my. I just love to go down. Like to feel them shudder and moan when I am down there...
I agree with you -- it is an associated pleasure. But --- it is that --- a pleasure for most of us. I'm a 75 year old married man ... and personally -- I would rather be sucking a nice clean cock these days. My how things change.
The pleasure they get is arousal. Feeling a cock in my mouth or throat is not particularly pleasurable. I would be perfectly fine never doing it again, but it turns me on and, knowing that my partner is enjoying it, is very pleasing.
Yeah, sometimes sucking cock takes time and really works the wrist and mouth, so its not that fun either except knowing you are creating pleasure for another. I get it and see where you are going, but I think driving someone crazy is what is turning people on when it comes to giving oral.
Bet you get enjoyment when she is sucking your cock so shut up and get licking het wet sweet fanny .