Wife caught me
A few years ago, I ran across an old high school friend of mine. We had not seen each other in years. His wife was in the final stages of ALS and we became friends. She had already passed the point where they could have sex. I remember the first time I gave him a blowjob, but I really can't remember how we got to the point where I offered and he accepted. Anyway, me giving him oral sex became a regular thing that we did even after his wife passed. What we did was discrete and no one knew as it was a well hidden part of what appeared to be a normal friendship between two men. I knew that our sexual activity should have only occurred at his house, but I got careless. It was a Saturday in June and we had just returned from golfing. I knew that my wife had gone shopping and would typically have lunch with her sister before returning in the early afternoon. I knew that he had been interested in me servicing him in someplace besides the bedroom and I took the opportunity to suck him in the kitchen in broad daylight. I had locked the doors in case someone showed up unexpectedly. I was on my knees with his cock in my mouth when I noticed that my wife was standing on the deck looking in through the sliding door. She obviously observed what we were doing. By the time I reached the driveway she was already driving away. She didn't return any of my calls or texts and she didn't return home until later that evening. I tried to talk to her and all she said was that she had seen what we were doing. We have never talked about it since and we have not been intimate in the five months since. We even sleep in separate bedroom. She doesn't want to get divorced. Although I am married, I am not sure that I can even say that I am bi anymore.
Nov 17
Oh hell yes, my wife would absolutely leave me if she knew what I do with other men when she is not around.
I'm 65, my wife and have not had sexual relations in probably eight years. I have a 1965 Ford Mustang that I am restoring in a friend's garage. He is a widower. There are four of us car guys that hang out at his place. I am the resident bottom. I still love my wife, just not sexually. For that I have the guys. Am I gay not bi because I only have sex with men? Who cares
Three years ago, in a moment of passion, and after my wife had said that she would love to watch two guys get it on together, I made the stupid mistake of confessing to her that I had given some guy a blow job on one of my frequent work trips and I offered to let her watch me suck another guys cock. Actually I had given quite a few but i only admitted to one. I thought that was what she wanted. But She absolutely freaked out and we have not had sex since. I know that she has told three of her friends and that pisses me off. She says she wants to stay married but she won't let me touch her. I would divorce her but that would mean that i would have to admit my sexually to everyone. The only sexual contact I get anymore is hooking up with random men on my travels. Since I don't get any at home, I am now versatile and promiscuous as hell while on the road. Like you, if I were being honest, I couldn't even say that I am bi. A woman made a pass at me the other day and I turned her down because I already had a arranged for some guy to come to my hotel room.