Hotwifing lifestyle

This is a question for the women out there that are hotwives or a shared wife ? I don’t mean women that sneak around and cheat on their husbands, wives that have sex outside marriage with your husband’s knowledge and approval.
Does your husband have to watch you ?
Do you like your husband to watch ?
Do you let them cum inside you ?
Do you do things with them that you wouldn’t or haven’t done with your husband ?
Do you need to be reclaimed afterwards ?
Even if your satisfied with you relationship with your husband, does sex with your lover curl your toes more ?
Does he clean you up when you get home ?

I became a shared/Hotwife in 1976, I just turned 20 and had been married for almost 3 years. My husband was my first lover, we had been going out since we were 15, my only other experience sexually was giving one guy a hand job and a messy blow job to another.
He was in the service, we were stationed overseas and like silly kids we got drunk and high. While we were settling in for the night, husband asked me if I wanted to fuck his friend. I thought he was cute, we’d been flirting most of the night after we got high. I just didn’t know what to say, we’d joked about this matter, was I going to be happy for the rest of my life only knowing one man, but here it was an opportunity and all my being wanted to, just explore, but I was scared.
My husband said I can see you want to, but are afraid, so put your sexy nightie on, don’t wear panties and take out these blankets and pillows for him and tell him that I passed out. If says thank you and just wants to sleep, well than that’s okay, but if he wants to talk, then go ahead and see what happens.
We ended up splitting between fucking and making love all night long.
He was gone in the morning and all my husband ever said was did I enjoy it, and I was going to explained all the mixed emotions I was feeling but he said just write about it.
When we did talk about it he said he loved me and was afraid to lose me by holding on too tight, that my curiosity would one day get the best of me and I’d be gone.
I’m 65 now, still married to the same man, I’ve had about 25 lovers. I don’t have to tell my husband any details as he just wants me to be happy. I do have a great journal and I stay in touch with a few of my former lovers, some of them are the most imaginative writers and sexting with them can be stimulating.
My husband does have access to all that material, he finds it entertaining in an amusing way.

So my husband doesn’t watch, and hasn’t ask me.
I’m glad that he lets me have this privacy, we share so many things in this world when are married and have a family, it is so nice to have something for yourself. I would tell him if he asked but this degree of trust he has in me just makes me love him more
Of course I let my lovers cum inside me. At first it was because I was a naïve and silly girl. That attitude was replaced by the sheer pleasure I felt in accepting a man seed. It the whole surrendering thing, besides there a few thing that are not as sexy as feeling your lovers seed drip out.
Yes I’ve done a lot of things I wouldn’t do with the hubby. It is so much easier to experiment with a stranger.
Some women need to rush home and have sex with their husbands, I haven’t as he knows I’m his.
My husband is a good lover with an above average penis, but I will admit that every lover I’ve had and every time they had sex with me, I had at least one earth shattering orgasm, but normally more.
Husband loves oral with me but won’t after I’ve been with a lover.

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