I'd have been good with her being a swinger and not a liar

So here’s how it goes. My sex life pretty much went into the crapper once my wife started menopause, her libido went to zero. All the things we did when we dated went out the door, sucking cock is gross, I don’t like wearing nighties, dresses up in sweats longjohns bra panties, just a litany of things. It came down to get behind me stick it in and get done, almost not even worth the effort, to just sleeping in different rooms
Found out that I’ve heart disease and Erectile dysfunction, now she bitches how she wants it but I can’t put out, not mentioning that for almost 18 years I lived with sex on average 4 times a year and was lucky if that.
Now she has a girlfriend that just lost her husband. She was telling her that dating for women their age, we are all 61, is so difficult as really all older guys are not looking for commitment just a fuck buddy, and the field isn’t that good either. She told her how she goes to this swinger club, everyone knows what they are there for, it has a nice selection and it was fun. Now the wife didn’t know that I could overhear what they were saying, so when she approached me about this, because I’m one of those silly men that told their wife how great it would be to see her have sex with someone else, how could I deny her.
So she says she wanted to go by herself the first time just to see if she’d want to, because she’d be able to back out without any pressure if it felt creepy. So her and her girlfriend head off on a Friday night and they don’t come back till Saturday late afternoon. I waited till Sunday to ask her how it was, she in a wearisome tone said that it was a washout for both of them, but her girlfriend and her had drank a lot so they stayed in a hotel close by till they sobered up. So two weeks later when she had planned another trip I was a bit surprised, but again I agreed with the only condition that she tell me what happened. So when off they go and again not return till late Saturday and she was again non-talkative, reserved.
So when they go off on their 3rd trip, I figure that I need to do some detective work. So about an hour after they left I go to this place, I was pleasantly surprised on how crowded it was, well that will make it easier to go unnoticed. First I almost blew it as I’d parked in the back looked around and luckily I saw their car coming in the parking lot. I kind of stayed back and watched them get out and go in the club. Second surprise, my wife is an extremely good looking 60 and could pass for an early 50, but she wasn’t wearing the clothes she had on when she left the house, they were dressed really sexy short skirts nylons showing a lot of cleavage. I waited about 20 minutes and went in and registered and paid and found a secluded spot off the bar in a dark corner.
It took me a while but spotted her on the dance floor. I wasn’t surprised, she always liked to dance, except that I’d offered to take her a lot in the past and she always said “naw, too old for that” but there she was working up a sweat with an ear to ear smile. It was almost cliché because her partner was a black gentleman, which didn’t bother me as much as I recalled her comments. I watched them sit at a table, holding hands and sharing the occasional kiss, which looked a little more than just a peck.
They danced a few more songs and then wondered off arm in arm towards the sex rooms. I’m thinking I’ve got to be careful as I didn’t want to run into her girlfriend, thankfully there must be a lot of voyeur husbands out there wandering and it was easy to blend in. There she was naked, standing in the pool, he was sitting on the edge and she was between his legs, splitting time, kissing him, and sucking his cock.
They got out of the pool when a room became vacant and they went in. They had a two way mirror in the room they went into as it was for more than one couple. He fucked the shit out of her and she seemed to be very happy about the whole thing, that was enough for me as I went out to the parking lot and sat in the truck that I’d borrowed. I was mentally digesting all this and her girlfriend comes out with a guy and they get into her car and drive off. That was interesting I sat there thinking maybe I should go back in and the wife comes out with, I’m thinking a different black guy, they get in his car and drive off, of course now I’m going to follow. I didn’t have long as they went to a motel and parked next to her girlfriend’s car and went into a room.
That was enough for me, I went home. So again they returned late Saturday afternoon, I asked her if this time was any better and she looked me straight in the eye and said it was very boring as there wasn’t many people there and she wondering if it was even worth going.
I have since filed for divorce, I still can’t think how she lied without getting upset. I wonder how many of us men are suckers.

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