I want to get bent over and pegged
I (M) have a great sex life with my SO (F). No complaints. But there’s one thing I’ve never been able to work up the courage to ask for: pegging. I’ve worn butt plugs during sex and she’s been open to wearing one as well though she hasn’t done so yet. So she knows I play with my prostate. But what I really want is for her to get me down on all fours and peg me with a strap on. I want to let go of control, be sexually submissive and forced to orgasm. I’ve even had wet dreams about it. But every time I’ve come even close to the topic of pegging it’s gone nowhere. Is there a best way I should approach the topic? This isn’t a deal breaker. If she just doesn’t want to do it then we’ll continue with our great sex life, but I think it would feel great to give up control, assume the position, and get pegged.
Me too . We’ve done a little ass play butt I’m begging for a pegging.
I’m in the same situation. We do ass play, so I’m just going to step it up then just tell her . I’m nervous.
I remember at first I didn't want my wife playing with my ass but she never gave up and I eventually gave into her letting her finger my ass when she was given me head. Then she had a didlo and she said just take a little bit of it and see how it feels. She was sucking my cock and the next thing I knew it was all the way inside of me and when I started to cum in her mouth it felt amazing. Before long I was on my knees with her fucking my ass with a dildo and jacking me off at the same time and I was loving it. Then she bought this black strapon and it looked like a real cock with the vainly shaft and everything and she got behind me and grabbed my hips and started fucking my ass I could feel it going deeper and deeper into me and after about 15 minutes I could feel the orgasm building up inside of me there was nothing I could do I was cumming all over the bed and she never had touched my cock? Was cumming hands free. She looked down at me and said you really liked that and you had an orgasm just like a woman. I have been her bitch in the bedroom ever since.
You’re a lucky man. I’d really like for my SO to bend me over and force me to orgasm from pegging. How did you first find out that she wanted to do it to you?
OP here. May be making a little progress. During a conversation about sex last night she made an offhand remark about how she could get a strap on and “do me in the butt”. I indicated that I was open to it. It didn’t go much farther than that, but I feel like I have more of an opening to talk about it now. Hopefully this will lead to me on all fours getting pegged.
If you watch porn together, start incorporating some pegging videos. Just a few here and there. The more she sees it and the more she sees you getting turned on by it, the more likely she will be to try it.
It’s not a bad idea, but we don’t really watch any.
All you can do is ask, if she's open to plugs, surely she'll peg! I bought our first strapon and my wife still uses it along with a few others. Get a double end one, my wife cums while fucking me every time. I am also the cumeater in our relationship. She don't like it, I do so I eat it all!
Yeah she is open to plugs and I wear one during sex from time to time. But so far even approaching the topic of pegging has gone nowhere. I’m not sure how to bring it up in a way she won’t find weird or joking.
Buy one, lay that shit out on the bed. She'll get the hint or tell you to fuck off. Either way, you'll get an answer!
I feel like that wouldn’t go over well. But the next time we look at toys online I may show her a strap on and see what she thinks.
In bed one night just bring up what's her fantasies in bed maybe she bring up pegging . If she don't you bring it up say it's yours. I was lucky my wife said it was hers. 20 years later part of are sex life . If I'm lucky 2 times a month I get a good pegging or prostate milking.
Nice. That’s great that it worked out for you. So far every time I’ve tried to bring up the subject my SO seems to think I’m not serious. She’s been open to butt plugs, particularly me wearing one during sex, and she’s joked about wearing a strap on and doing me, but that’s as far as it gets. Part of the issue is that I’m still too embarrassed to really tell her I want her to peg me since I’m normally the dominant one during sex.
Then go buy one and and tell her to step up. Bich I ain't jokin!
I feel like that wouldn’t go over well, but maybe the next time we look at sex toys online I’ll suggest a strap on to her.