A**hole bf broke up cause my past
My bf broke up with me when things between us were getting serious. we were talking marriage so i felt it was time to tell him about my past two abortions and getting a std. i was in high school when my parents made me get my first bort. i was at a party after a BLM rally and hooked up with a couple of guys. they refused to use a condom. days later i thought i was in yeast mode but got worse went to the dr. i had HPV & took a preg test. it was positive. i decided to abort this time. he didn't no any of that till i told him. he broke up with me. i don't think it's fair for him to judge me on my past. he said i should have told him about the std before we first had sex. we always used a condom so i didn't think it was necessary.
Abortions are normal and healthy and he's shitty to judge you for having them. As far as your std, people are entirely too uptight about them. They exist, live in reality. I'm a conservative, catholic father and I'm sorry you weren't loved
It’s perfectly normal for a female to think it’s unfair for her to suffer consequences of her actions.
If you have an STD then you absolutely need to tell your partner before you are intimate.
Why?
i'd been clean & clear for months before we first met. i'm no on long term maintenance meds. i got tested each month for a year and clean. i mean my ex and I hooked up after our first date and btw my medical history is private and I think it's kinda weird to share that info that soon? what's in the past stays in the past he don't need to no that.
at the time we were having fun and he wore a condom. i don't think it something to break off a relationship 4.
If you went to a BLM rally, then you got what you deserve
Why is that?
Honey - ignore the flack you get here. You came to the wrong place for intelligent discussion of your concern.
Mostly just 'little dicks' talking here and guys with anger issues!
Find some girlfriends to share with.....