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Got Pregnant On Business Trip and Husband Assumes The Child Is HI
I was traveling for business and met a rather handsome man at the hotel restaurant. I went back to his room with no intentions of doing anything but to talk and relax. I got caught up in the moment and we had sex. When he was about to enter me I asked if he had a condom and he said that he didn't. I wasn't on birth control (my husband uses condoms) but I thought I was safe and let him come inside me unprotected.
And yes, I got pregnant. Though we generally use condoms, when I came home I had sex with my husband and asked him to come inside me without one. He refused as he said he didn't want to get me pregnant.
I later told him I was pregnant and that the condom must have failed. He totally believed me and now we've been raising our daughter for a year. No one knows and thankfully, the man who got me pregnant looked similar to my husband.
I'm just worried about the future if anyone finds out later due to blood tests or DNA tests.
I knew a couple in college who were deeply in love with each other and on the road to marriage. He used a condom, she was on birth control to help with other issues besides her sexuality. She did not know at the time of lovemaking that she was carrying the flu virus. It destroyed the effectiveness of the birth control pill, his condom busted, and they now are married and have a wonderful 16 year old daughter. I suspect your kid is not going to have the same upbringing. Women must understand that men have more ways of getting out of a pregnancy situation without psychological guilt and responsibility than women do due to how we are raised and our own biology. A female friend of mine got knocked up after just 5 dates with an idiot, but she couldn't have an abortion because, despite not having a religious upbringing, she could not live with herself if she aborted the baby. She was TOO attached to it. This moron bolted for another country she doesn't know about and will raise the child alone. I am sorry, but the statistics just do not favor single moms of kids, no matter what feminists might say. Of course if a man beats his wife and children it's better to divorce. But people divorce over stupid things like money, which should be discussed in a counseling environment before babes are born. She is not going to chase this meathead around the world trying to get money from him. The priority is the baby. And the kid is going to suffer just so he could get some pussy and her a drunk whisky penis.
I think you should have more kids this way. It is hot
Poor poor man. Raising a child he thinks is his. You should tell your husband and give him the dignity of finding someone new.
The truth will come out. The chickens always come home to roost, eventually. I feel bad for the kid, that's the one who will suffer the most.
I'm assuming that the guy you met and had sex with is a stranger to you and right now, you probably don't even know his last name. That's the way it usually goes with these chance relationships. It happened and you can't undo it now, so I think it's best to leave everything as is and please do not mention it to your husband. That's not saying that someday, something may come up that will create suspicions, but until then, keep it quiet or you may have serious problems with your marriage.
Take it to your grave. You will only be unburdening yourself by placing that burden on him and the child. You did it, you live with it. Just hope the child looks like you.