Out, sort of, not really

I’m an older bi divorced male. I basically lead a double life. To my family and older friends, I’m straight and I don’t believe any are aware of my bisexual side. To new acquaintances, at out of town bars, traveling and to my girlfriend, I’m openly bisexual. I know at some point the two worlds will collide. I’m partially nervous for that and partially excited. I considered “coming out” to family and friends but decided “fuck it”, they’ll figure it out, or not. It’s a label, I don’t really care. Is this weird? I feel like maybe there’s lots of folks like me.