Wife asks the big question
My wife and I have been married for 17 years. Our sex life used to be spectacular. We had sex like 2-3 times a week for 10 years or more. Then I got a better job at a different place. Ours increased and so did my stress level. Our sex dropped off dramatically. Our schedules keep conflicting and due to the increased stress, I’m now having trouble keeping an erection.
For the past 4 years, we have had a don’t ask, don’t tell type of relationship. Not officially allowing each other to cheat officially. I have had sex with a buddy of mine (another guy) a few times successfully. I don’t think that I am gay. I don’t really look at other men when I’m out. I don’t think of men in a romantic way. I just get together with my buddy from work on occasion. He fucks me till he cums then blows me till I cum. Anyway, that’s not the subject of this story.
Wife and I were having dinner a year or so ago. She asked me what I thought of the idea of an open marriage. Now, I know that she has had sex with at least one other man. She got a text one evening and I grabbed her phone thinking it was mine. I read through her texts and saw that they had been meeting up several times. It didn’t bother me. I wouldn’t ever deny her sex just because I can’t keep a hard on when we are together.
I said, “I am not against you having sexual fulfillment. I just don’t want you to fall in love with another man and leave me.” She said, “We are way too good together to ever split up. I can compartmentalize sex. If I did it, it would be sex strictly for orgasms.” I said, “You have someone in mind?” She said, “Yeah. A guy I work with. He digs me and has been after me for a long time. What about you?” I said, “Yeah. A friend from work also.” She said, “What’s her name?” I said, “It’s not a her. It’s my buddy brian.” She said, “Oh wow. A guy? You sure you’d be into that?” I said, “I’d like to try it and see. Who knows.”
So, the dynamic of our relationship did change. I work thirds and instead of going straight home at 5am. I’d go to Brian’s house and then head home afterwards. If she asked, I wouldn’t always tell her I was at Brian’s. Once a week, I’d tell her that was where I was. The other 4 times a week, I told her we just had overtime. I was having sex with Brian 5 days a week. Claire and I were able to start having sex again. The weekends were our time. Maybe I had a head block. I dunno.
Claire was having sex with her work friend Steven, 5 days a week. She would do it after work as well. She let me know every day what was going on. I think it turned her on to tell me she was going to have sex with another man. I know it turned me on to visualize her riding another man’s cock. She worked at a bank and got off work the same time every day. 5pm on the dot. She would text me. “Off work. Headed to Steven’s/Michael’s house and then I’ll be home after. Lemme know what you want for dinner.” She’d be home usually around 7-8pm.
So about a month ago, we had planned to go to Florida for the week. Me, Claire and my 19 year old son Craig. Literally the day before we were supposed to go to the airport, I had to back out. A couple ppl at work quit and I had to train the replacements. Claire asked if I wanted to reschedule. I told her that we probably couldn’t. Plane tickets had been bought for over a month and we couldn’t get a refund. I told her to take Craig and have a good time. I also suggested she call up one of her FWB and see if they wanted to take my spot.
So they went ahead and went without me. I ended up just staying with Brian. A couple days in I texted her and said, “How’s the vacation going?” She said, “Fabulous. Wish you were here.” I said, “Who did you end up taking with you?” She said, “Nobody. Everyone was working.” I said, “So no sex for 5 days? That sucks.” She said, “Oh, I’ve had sex twice so far. In fact, I just got done about 20 minutes ago. Still have his cum inside me. Wanna see?” I said, “You know I do.” She took a pic and sent it to me. She was naked and sweat drenched. Her legs were spread open and she indeed had a cream pie oozing out of her pussy.
Final day she texted that they were getting on the plane and would need a pick up when they landed. I picked them up and asked how the vacation was. Both said it was awesome and they wished I had been there. when we got alone, I asked her, “So how was it?” She said, “How was what?” I said, “Your sex-cation.” She said, “You know me too well. it was good.” I said, “Was he staying at the same hotel?” She said, “Yeah.” I said, “How did you sneak out of the room?” She said, “Why sneak out?” I said, “I mean you can’t just say hey Craig I’m gonna go fuck someone brb.” She said, “Craig was there.” I said, “You fucked someone in the same room with your step son?” She said, “No lol. Craig and I had sex.” I said, “You had sex with Craig? Really?” She said, “Really.” I said, “Not mad. Kinda shocked. How did that happen?” She said, “You really want to know?” I said, “Yeah.” She said, “Well, tell me what you did all week first.” I said, “Went to work then brian and I went back to his house.” She said, “You fucked Brian all 5 days?” I said, “More accurately, Brian fucked me. I prefer being on bottom.” She said, “Baby! That’s so fucking hot. Is he good in bed?” I said, “Oh yeah.” She said, “How big is his dick?” I said, “About 8 inches.” She said, “Do you swallow?” I said, “Like a good girl.” She said, “Condoms?” I said, “Nope. He’s clean and It’s just him and me.” She said, “I can’t hate on that. I don’t use condoms either.”
I said, “So how did this thing with you and Craig start?” She said, “It started like a year or so ago.” I said, “When you asked me for an open relationship?” She said, “Yep. He was showering and I needed to potty. I spotted him looking at me so I wanted to see him. You know he has a big cock?” I said, “I don’t make it a habit of looking at my son’s dick.” She said, “He’s like 9 inches.” I said, “You guys have sex a lot?” She said, “Oh yeah. Like 5-6 times a week.” I said, “Jesus. Wait? Six? You fuck him on a day that we have sex?” She said, “Sometimes yeah.” I said, “Well, at least I know who it is. Not some random guy I’ll ever see.”
Perfect relationship.