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Wife wants a second lover
Wife and I were settled down for the night about a couple weeks ago. It was both our days off. She said, “Honey, I want to ask you something.” I said, “Ok, what?” She said, “I’ve given this a lot of thought. I want a second lover.” I said, “A what?” She said, “One of the guys at work that I’ve been friends with for a long time. I want to start sleeping with him.” I said, “I mean, there are women that I see out and about that I think are hot, but i don’t think I’d ever have the balls to ask you if I can sleep with them.” She said, “Not a one night stand. Like, I want him to be my boyfriend and me his girlfriend. I want some variety in my sex life. You have been my only sex partner and I want to experience someone else. I love you and I don’t want to split up, but I’d much rather do this knowing you are ok with it.”
We didn’t talk for a half hour. Then I said, “I don’t want things to change between us.” She said, “I can’t say that they will not change. Of course the dynamic of our marriage will change. I’m not going into this with the idea that I’m gonna want a divorce. Hell, it may spice up our marriage.” I said, “I’ll agree under one condition.” She said, “What’s that?” I said, “It doesn’t have to be right away, but I want to do a threesome with him.” She said, “Wow really? I think it would be hot to be sucking one of you guys dicks while the other one fucks me.” I said, “Yeah…and I want to suck his dick.” She said, “You do?” I said, “I will have no problem you having sex with other men. I want your permission for me to have sex with men.” She said, “What if you don’t like it?” I said, “I do like it. Lets just leave it at that.”
I would love to see my wife take a second lover. I have zero interest in sucking dick, but would do an MMF with her and a lover if she'd reciprocate and do an MFF with me another another woman.
My wife loves seeing me with other men
Can you tell me about the first time you were with another man
My wife and I are also talking more openly about this type of arrangement recently. Not sure if we’ll ever go further than that, but if she ever does ask outright I’ve already decided to let her take a lover, subject to certain conditions.
My wife and I had things go really stale after being married for 8 years, she was a virgin on our wedding night, I had slept with just two women before meeting her.
One night we were messing around and she asked me if I had ever thought of doing something to spice up our sex lives.
I asked her what she had in mind as an idea, she suggested flashing, maybe going to a swinger's club of something like that.
I told her sure, if that is what she wanted, she said she wanted to do what I wanted to do.
That was my opportunity to say what I had been thinking, so I blurted out that I wanted to watch her seduce some guy.
She looked shocked, then got a sly look in her eyes, asked me how she did that.
I told her, maybe hit a bar somewhere and catch some guy the same way she caught me. I had asked her to dance, she flirted, and just like that, we were dating, but no sex other than touching until we married.
So, we went out, she had one guy getting all hot and bothered quickly, until she mentioned I wanted to watch, he was not interested in that.
Then she tried another, same result.
After a half dozen over a couple of weeks with the same result, I told her to just take some guy out to our van in the parking lot and show him a good time.
The first one she did that with was a cowboy type, he lasted maybe 15 seconds. She is now at four guys she has had sex with in our van, all four duds.
Last week she was weeding our garden, and the old man who lives next door came out. He is about 70 or so, he seemed interested, always has, so she went to work on him.
He was delighted when he found out he could have sex with her if I got to watch. The guy was huge and he had stamina, now he comes over once a week or so to get some.
It's kind of fun, she sure seems to be enjoying it, hell 70 years old and no way can I bat with that guy.
My wife has had a lot of boyfriend's over the years. It was an arrangement that we both agreed to a little while after we got married. At first it was a little strange watching her getting ready to go out with a guy..she would say gone all night long then he would drive her home I could see her kissing a guy goodbye. Nothing had changed between her and I we lived as a married couple and are sex life together was great. She always took care of my needs first before other guys. I would get horny just watching her getting all done up and her asking me if she looked good. I could always tell when she was looking for a new guy because she would dress slutty but hot looking. Most of the time before she went out for the night she would suck my cock really slow and when she wanted me to cum she pulls on my balls hard and let my cock slide into her throat that makes me cum so hard when she does that. She says I love you and the guy would be in the driveway waiting for her.
I guess this happens to a lot of married people. The sex between them gets boring and it's the same old thing. I was married to my wife about for about 5 years. She was working nights as a bartender she started coming home a little later than usual. I asked her what was going on she said that it was bizzy and she had to stay late. One night I went to her work and waited across the street. She walked out with a big guy he looked like a body builder. He walked her to her car then I watched her kissing and hugging on him .I drove off and made it home before her. When she came in I started on her telling her that I seen her with him. I asked are you fucking him she said no that all she's done is kiss him and that she wants to fuck him because she wanted to know what it would be like with him. We talked for hours about are sex life together. How she didn't want to lose me over this she said that it would be just a one time thing but I knew better than that but I agree and she fucked him and he ended up being her boyfriend for a few years until she got bored with him and moved on to other men. Are sex life together got a lot better she became more open and sexuality free and I did enjoy her more. I just had to expect her fucking other guys but she always came back home to me.
She came home because you were her sense of security
My hubby and I have been swapping for years with this other couple. I go on dates with Jim, sleepover, vacations, he’s literally my boy friend. Vinny my hubby didn’t find Stephanie to be a 10, but in my eyes she’s definitely 8-9 Vinny also says she’s a dead fish. But being with Jim has definitely improved my marriage with Vinny, it was getting dull, and routine. I still love Vinny and wish to grow old with him, but I am having my fun with Jim. And we have a lot of fun. We’ve made lots of memories, even had a second wedding with strangers. These are the only 2 men I have been with, my only secret with Vinny is we don’t use protection, and that was his request. A girl can’t swallow all the time. And our kids have no idea
That's exactly how it is with us too. I have my real hubby who I love more than anything else in the world, my soul mate, my everything, and then I have my boyfriend just for fun! I love the idea of the second wedding, that sounds amazing!