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How do I respond
My wife called me into the bathroom last night and told me she’s seeing another man. I asked of course to clarify what she meant by “seeing”. She said she’s been having sex with another man. A lot of sex.
They met after working out. She is 25 and h e is 21 years her senior. I’m frozen with fear, disbelief and confused on how to move forward. She says she loves me but says I have a lot of issues and she’s going to keep seeing him until I fix myself.
Any suggestions on how to I’ve forward?
Leave her. 4 billion women in this world Cheaters never change.
Work on your issues while she cheats. When you’ve come to a good place she might stop, or she might not. It’s her body and she’s allowed to do with it what she wants. You could get a lot of joy out of it if you open up to it
Easy, think about what bad traits you possess, do something about them if possible, but not for her. Find someone younger and better looking and put that younger woman's problems first. Be a man instead of sitting there taking this bullshit.
My wife told me that she was unhappy with me because I worked all the time and didn't have time for her like she wanted and that she had sexual needs. I didn't want to lose her over it she's a beautiful woman and she does have a high sex drive. We talked it over and decided that she would see other men on the side. At first it was just one guy she was fucking then another and next thing she had to many guys she was trying to please at the same time all of them thinking that they were her boyfriend's that led to fights. Now she is just seeing one guy and he knows that she's married he's a nice guy we have him over for dinner he and I have talked and understand how everything is.
If you’ve been married any length of time you’re getting sloppy seconds. Male or female doesn’t matter. I’ve told my husband numerous times just because he married me doesn’t mean he owns my pussy nor do I own his dick. He finally accepted this. What I didn’t expect was my 18 year old daughter his step daughter was and still is fucking him. She’s not even on birth control anymore.
That sure did bite you in the ass, pretty stupid on your part. Ran your mouth and acted like a whore, now getting replaced like one. Your daughter certainly knows what you said and resents you for it, so homeboy gonna walk away with an 18yo loyal trophy. Something tells me this sort of stupidity landed you as a single mother in the first place.
Let her go shoes not deserve you. You pay the bills she fucks around.
If you’re truly not into that type of arrangement on the level of cuckolding or such, and it’s genuinely destructive for you I’d say that you two need to breakup.
If you’re into humiliation and this type of stuff, we’ll, then it’s your choice.
Key point being, how are you going to react? If you don’t like it you have to move forward and out of that situation. Clinging to what once was won’t help you.
I'm a 28 yr old married female. During the lockdown I started having sex with my, at the time, 48yr old neighbor. He's divorced, works construction and very fit.
My husband locked himself in the house and did gaming tournaments during the lockdown. I work at a State Park and love being outside. Since the park was closed I started jogging in the mornings.
G was home and in his garage working out. We started talking. We started jogging together. He coached me with some cross fit equipment in his garage.
I hadn't had sex in 2 months, he was flirting, I was in the mood. It happened.
OMG it happened! WOW!
My husband is not interested in having sex with me. He's also gained so much weight over the past two years he has trouble getting hard.
G and I still hook up a few times a month. He's my sex fix.
I'm still married, I'm sure my husband knows why I go to G's house a few times a month but he doesn't say anything.
I highly recommend having sex with an older man!
28, fit, and love being outdoors? Well shit, I'd sneak into the park with you and have a little picnic eating your pussy out on the picnic tables. Not even joking, I pass through the metroparks and state parks all the time past close, even camp in them where nobody is supposed to. Finding a woman that enjoys being outside like that is a challenge. Sorry your husband is being such a pudge.
As a guy with a strong sex drive, funny part is if you were my wife I’d get turned on by what you’re doing and allow it.
I’d reclaim you aggressively whenever you returned from G’s or even after each run you went on.
It happens in a lot of marriages. My wife was cheating on me with a guy she worked with when I found out I had a lot of mixed feelings and emotions I was pissed off and mad as hell wanted to kill someone. Then she told me that she loved me more than anything else but I need to work out my problems that I have. Are sex life together hadn't changed and as time went by she was fucking a lot of other guys and I realized that I was trying to control her in the beginning of are marriage. With her fucking other men I became more comfortable in my manhood and realized that sex doesn't make a marriage it's about how you treat each other. Yes my wife is sleeping around and getting fucked by strange guys but we show each other love and respect and are marriage is stronger than ever before.
And pigs can fly.