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I never told my husband the real number of men I've been with, before meeting him. He mentioned one night that he's been with 30ish women before me. I mentioned that's about right for me, too. We started dating exclusively a couple of weeks after.
He doesn't know that the real number is in the hundreds. For a number of reasons, I'd go through periods of fucking around like crazy. Some days I'd chain dates, starting the morning at one man's room, then seeing 2-3 more guys until ending with the last one in the evening at my place.
We'll be going to childhood friend weddings and meet men who fucked me when younger, without my husband having a clue.
There's a reason why nothing he brings up is a surprise, I've already tried it with someone else. No, he's not the biggest or best fucker I've had, as I lied to him. But he's a perfect husband.
When i hear or read stories like this I am reminded to be grateful for the relationship I am in. My man knows all about my past. Furthermore he get ls off on it. Now that I know what it feels like to have a safe space within my relationship I can't see having to hide anything. I feel like everyone should be able to have that kind of freedom and not have feel like they'd be shamed about it. It's opened up levels of honesty and intimacy between us that lead us to exploring so many sexual things we couldn't have if he didn't know how much of a slut I am.
A lot of guys, myself included, find the idea of their wife having a wild and slutty past to be a huge turn on. There's even a whole subreddit about it called r/HotPast. If your husband keeps asking you about your past, either he's terribly insecure or he has this kink, or possibly both.
Of course, for a lot of guys, myself included, this kink goes beyond past activities into a full hotwife kink. This is a lot more common than you may think! Your husband may be asking you about your past hoping that a particularly juicy story could be a conversational bridge into discussing the possibility of you being free to enjoy other men. If that's the case, don't dismiss it out of hand. Take time and give it some serious thought. It could be start of a whole new exciting chapter in both your sex life and your relationship with your husband!
Make sure that you're both clear on what the rules and expectations are, and consider putting them in writing. Remember that accepting a "hall pass" doesn't mean that you need to start looking for other men to sleep with right away. It can simply mean that if and when an opportunity presents itself that you find appealing, you know already know that you have his permission to go for it. Have fun!
You sound like my gf. Except for being open and honest with me. She knows I get off on it!
The general rule is to multiple what a women tells you by 3x and to divide what a man tells you by 3x also!
My wife told me that she had well over 100 men. I have had much less, but i didn't admit it. After a week or so it began turning me on, and i got her to tell me about a group of her friends that she would get stoned with would all have sex with her, mostly as a group, and sometimes she would meet other guys from her neighborhood and just do it. I would get so turned on, when she told me that we began having much more sex. The idea of my wife getting screwed by guys is hot to me.
My husband keeps asking about past stories, but it gets annoying and not fun. I don't know why he gets turned on by it, but there's a reason why I haven't told him all about my past.
Hot! You sound really fun. Do you cheat too, or is it all in the past?
I haven't cheated on him. There are times though that I feel like I'm missing on certain things he can't give me.