Is my husband gay??

Yep!!

He sounds gayer than some of the men I've fucked. So yes baby he is gay!

Sounds like he has bisexual fantasies, submissive fantasies, at least. Lots of men these days look at shemale porn. It is one of the most watched categories of porn. Not sure why. But lot of straight men look at it. I have my theories. One: men like anal stimulation but won't admit it, or are afraid to. Few will ask their gf or wife to peg them, but they think about it. The orgasm is amazing. To most men, that seems gay, so they suppress the thought and won't admit thinking of it. You may have noticed how it brings him closer to cumming if you touch his ass crack or the taint area between the balls and asshole. The asshole tightens up when a man cums. It is connected, and there are nerves there involved in the process of cumming. Plus the prostate is involved. But since it is the butt area, men think it is off limits and bad to feel good from it. Secretly, we think we must be fags since we like our butts penetrated, touched, etc. So we look at the freaks who have thrown social inhibition to the wind and just enjoy their bodies. There are other fetishes which are taboo, and if he has one, he feels he has to hide it from you. So he jacks off to taboo porn. Is he really gay or bi? Maybe not. The real thing is different to the fantasy. He might try it and be grossed out. I don't know. You need to talk to him.

I think he's love for you to know. And -- he doesn't need a label, gay, bi, straight -- or what-ever. Maybe he's like me, and just loves cock. I'm a married cock sucker and love cock. And I love my wife. Talk with him and let he suck cock with you present. That's really want some of us want. Suck together and stay together.

Yes at least bi. Bet he would love to share it with you